Sunday, January 10, 2010

0 Want To Be The Man Who Stands Out?

Want To Be One Of Those Naturals Who "Gets It"?

Want Major Dating Success To Come Your Way?

If so...here's a phrase you need to become VERY familiar
with - one that you're going to want to even obsess a bit
about.

If this were Vegas, I'd be willing to throw a bit of cash
at the fact that you are probably not very good at this
vital technique.

It single-handedly transformed my "game" from good
to killer, once I understood it.

Master this, and start throwing social "atom bombs" at
very attractive women.

So what the %&$# am I talking about already???

Sexual Tension.

This separates the men from the boys.

Get this skill down pat, and you will have to throw your
phone away...because it will forever drive you CRAZZY
with it's incessant ringing!

If you're really paying attention as you read this, you should
be asking yourself right now:

How Do I Create And Intensify Sexual Tension?

Good question Schttrj, so glad you asked that...

There are plenty of ways to do it, but there is ONE way, one
skill that is mandatory.

Body language is important, vocal tone is important,
your level of relaxation is important, what you wear is
important...

But much more than that, FLIRTING is your key to the
riches of sexual tension.

How well do you flirt?

Well, if you don't know, look at the results you're getting
from your interactions with women.

Satisfied?

Are you set for a date this Saturday night?

Have you gotten laid in the last 30 days?

Have you met a new girl in the last week?

Do you have a girlfriend who you love, and who
loves you?

If so Schttrj, feel free to stop reading now man.

But, if you're like most "average" guys out there, then
you need to work on this skill.

So, lets get real and be serious about this for a moment...
or, better yet, let's NOT.

Being too serious, and trying to flirt, is like C3PO trying
to break dance.

Listen, I work with a lot of guys and I know that most of
them feel pretty clueless when it comes to flirting.

They either overdo it, and come off like a horse's $&# or the
don't do it enough, failing to create any sexual tension AT ALL.

These guys tend to live with the "nice guy" label, and have
many female "friends" in their lives but little romance.

"Let's Just Be Friends" is what they hear from women, not:

"Can I come over?"
"What are you doing tonight?"
"There's this great party, and I'd like you to come with me -
are you free?"

Do you hear those phrases from women?

Keep reading....

The first key to flirting is to RELAX. When you are uptight
about a girl "liking you", she will sense it and lose
interest FAST. This is not rocket science here Schttrj.

When you feel this way, look her in the eye and imagine her
snoring.

Think I'm kidding - try it out!

I know it sounds strange, but when you see that pretty
face of hers blaring out a loud snore while asleep,
she tends to lose all the importance you have given her.

The idea I want you to get here is to realize that she is
not deserving of your power, so why be freaked out in
her presence?

Second, being flirtatious means being playful. There is a
lot written up out there about the importance of being
"cocky".

Frankly, this idea is played out. The guys I meet
tell me the same thing over & over:

"Every time I get cocky with her, she loses interest in me.
 I always come off like an ass!"

Yep. That's why we don't talk cocky here. The key is to be
PLAYFUL. Teasing her is GREAT.

Treat her like she's the nerdy kid in high school. When she
does something dumb, bust her on it. When you do this though,
do it with a smile - be sure she knows you are teasing her.

Otherwise, without the playful attitude, you will be categorized as a jerk.

Incidentally, NEVER make fun of her looks. Feel free to
compliment her "look", but never tease her about her genetic
appearance. Tease and bust on her behavior only. This is
where the fun happens.

The magic combination is to combine this playful attitude
with being a gentleman. Open doors, pull out the chairs,
offer your arm when going over the curb, help with her
jacket...all of those chivalrous things...DO THEM.

Feel free to be as nice and courteous to her as possible.

But, be sure to mix that with teasing and a playful
combination. Having this mixture allows you to be a
gentleman. Without it, you become her "friend" and a
"nice guy". Yuck!

By revealing that you are considerate and fun, you become
the big winner. It is the essence of what is called
"push/pull".

I cover this in massive detail in my ebook.

You've heard of "How To Get A Girlfriend", right?

For now, just note that when you tease her, you subtly (psychically)
push her away.

When you are considerate and chivalrous, you pull her towards you.

This creates TENSION.

This tension is also known as - Sexual Tension. To flirt
like a man means to be the master of tension.

When to dial it up, when to slow it down, and when to drop it
altogether.

It takes experience to master it, but focus on these
principles & ride the fast track:

- Relax - nothing is more unattractive than an uptight guy,
  chill out and lower the stakes;

- Playful - tease her, poke fun at her, call her a "brat" and do it with a
  smile;

- Gentleman - Open doors, offer your hand and make her feel
  special;

- Confidence - do all of the above with confidence, and you
  will help her feel comfortable and valuable...this combo
  makes you the big winner.


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