0 "I WANT to reinvent my personality."

This community of dating advice for men does a lot of great
things - it coaches us on how to interact with women, it reveals
wisdom about female psychology, it helps us naturally (and
unnaturally) meet more women, it helps focus us on fashion &
style...it does a LOT, doesn't it Schttrj?

But, there is one very corrosive belief that many guys
suffer from, which is dead WRONG:

The belief that you - or anyone - must REINVENT his
personality in order to attract women.

That is the height of neediness, and the most dramatic way
that you can GROW insecurity in your life.

If you've directly, or indirectly, bought into this belief
- perhaps through watching "The Pick-Up Artist" on VH1, or
through reading other newsletters/ebooks etc. - please, RIGHT
NOW, swear off that belief like it was crack cocaine.

It's unhealthy, and IMPOSSIBLE.

Instead, I'd like to offer you an alternative, which can
speed up your possibilities with women AND stabilize the
foundations of your social life.

That advice?

GO WITH IT.

However you are is FINE - A-OK - GOOD TO GO...but, you may
need a bit of tweaking here and there.

Some of you may need a complete overhaul in "the shop"
while others may just need a good polish/buff job.

Your personality is YOU and you're not going to REINVENT
it...you, nor I, nor Mystery, nor anyone has that ability.

So, don't even waste your time with it.

Instead?  Find your PURPOSE - your deepest life's wish, and
GO with it.

That, more than anything else, will lead you to the
"promised land" with women.

Remember what I said earlier:

Women CARE that your life has purpose and meaning to you.

This is the number 1 most attractive 'thing' to women.

If you start with that, and build your social skills,
personal style, lifestyle, social circle, approach techniques,
etc AROUND that, you will be on the fast track to dating success.

This is a more natural path to dating success, and it is
actually DOABLE.

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