0 The only 3 Things That Might Happen When You Meet A Girl

Every time you meet a new girl, 3 things might happen:

       1) She might think "Damn!"

       2) She might think "Eew!"

       3) She might not think anything...


Reaction #1: "Damn!"

       If you're extremely handsome, have a GREAT personality
that radiates charm, and happen to be EXCATLY the type of guy
she has been looking for, she'll probably think "damn!" in
her mind. If this happens...you're extremely lucky. All you have
to do is to move in for the kill.

Reaction #2: "Eew!!!!!!!!"

       If you're butt-ugly, unconfident, dirty, and happen to
be JUST the type of guy she HATES, she'll think "eew" as soon
as she sees you. Now...she probably won't say this out loud to
you. She'll probably even fake a smile at you. But if you
start hitting on her, she's either going to get very angry or
very annoyed.

Reaction #3: She feels neutral about you.

       This is what happens most of the time. (Like AT LEAST
95 percent of the time.) If you're a clean an average-looking,
this is what you're PROBABLY going to get from 95 percent of
women you meet.

       And this is good news for you.

       Why? Because as long as you're in this "neutral zone",
you can work on creating the sexual tension you need to turn
the "I don't feel anything" into a "damn".

       When you're in the neutral zone, everything you do
will have an impact on the feelings the girl has towards you.
She'll either like you more or like you less with every move
you make.

       If you keep on doing things that kill her interests,
then you're just going to be good "friends" with her - forever.

       But if you do things that spark romantic feelings,
sooner or later she's going to be attracted to you.

       So...next time you meet a girl, REMEMBER to spark
her attraction for you.

       Here's a short list of the things you can do to
spark romantic interests:

       1) Flirt With Her: Build up the chemistry between
                          you and her.

       2) Tease Her:      Break down her resistance and
                          drop her "bitch shield" with
                          teasing.

       3) Be A Challenge: Show her you're strong enough
                          to be more than just another
                          "friend".


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0 FOUR Eye Signals From Women

One day I asked Adam how he was able to attract desirable women
without making much of an effort. What Adam told me FOREVER
changed the way I viewed women...

"It's kind of funny Scott" Adam said. "Men think they're the ONLY
ones who check out the opposite sex. Truth is women do this just
as much. Maybe more. My secret is I'm REALLY good at picking
up these subtle cues."

After noticing my blank stare he continued...

"Okay, think of it this way. Ever got caught 'looking' at a
girl's breasts? The *thing* that gave you away was your EYES.
Without saying a word, she KNEW you were checking her out because
your eyes were on her tits.

Now I'm not saying women are as obvious as guys. BUT, they DO
check out guys. My secret is I know how to decipher the signals
of interest in a woman simply watching WHERE her eyes go.

THEN I know how to use my own body language to quickly ramp up
her levels of sexual desire. If you do this correctly, it's like
putting a 'Jedi Mind Trick' on a girl."

Needless to say, Adam COMPLETELY blew me away with this comment.

He then went on to reveal FOUR ways a woman will show interest
through the way she establishes eye contact. So today, I want
to talk about these signals and what they ACTUALLY mean:

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#1- The Sneaky Peek
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Just like the name describes "The Sneaky Peek" is when a girl
will lock eyes with you and quickly look away. Then after a
moment or two, you'll catch her subtly trying to look back at
you.

This is a form of eye contact you'll often find in a social
gathering where people are clustered into groups. Like a bar or
a club.

When you get a look like this, you know that she probably has
some form of interest. (If she's not interested, then she would
avert her eyes and NOT look in your direction again)

Out of all forms of eye contact, you will most often encounter
"The Sneaky Peak". So it's important to have a plan of action
of what you'll do when you get a look like this!

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#2- The Once Over
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As you can probably guess, this is when the woman's eyes make an
up-and-down scan over your entire body. She may start from the
top and work her way down, or the exact opposite, but if she does
this to you, be assured of one thing...she sees something she
likes.

In way, she's enjoying ONE quality about you and is trying to see
if you possess anything else that she wants. The funny thing is
this is done on a VERY subconscious level and woman rarely even
knows she's doing it.

Obviously one of the qualities you should showing is a high status
male who gets many "once over" looks from women.

=> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/become-an-alpha-male-system.html

You'll often get a look like this when you're passing by a woman.
It's generally very quick, so you may miss it if you're not
paying attention.

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#3- The Puppy Dog
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When a person is excited, there are certain physiological
responses they cannot control. Dilated pupils are one of these
responses.

It's an unconscious action that's a surefire giveaway that a
woman is feeling a TON of attraction for you. The wider that
little black dot in the middle of her eye gets, the more she's
into you (unless, of course, she high on something at the time.)

I call it "The Puppy Dog" because you'll often get this look when
she's starting to feel attraction. Like a cute puppy dog, she's
eyeing you like you're the most important person in the world.

Typically you'll get this look when you're in the middle of a
conversation with a woman. She'll give it to you at the point
when she stops being polite and ACTUALLY starts feeling that
strong pull of attraction:

=> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/become-an-alpha-male-system.html

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#4- The Kiss Me
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While 'The Once Over' is more of an "investigative" type of
glance, 'The Kiss Me' look is more seductive in nature.

When a woman looks you over left to right (especially around your
face), this means she's already established a certain comfort
level with you. She's feeling HIGH levels of attraction and wants
you to make a move.

In other words, she wants you to kiss her.

Out of all forms of eye contact, this is my personal favorite.
When I get a look like this, I simply look her deep in her eyes,
and if she flicks her eyes back and forth, I know that's my
signal to go for it.

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FINAL THOUGHTS
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As I mentioned at the start of this message, deciphering the
*code* in a woman's eyes can be your SECRET WEAPON to attracting
them. When you know a woman is interested, it's REALLY simple to
take that next step.

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0 Top 10 Mistakes In Approaching Women

Are you able to approach attractive women consistently and grab their attention?
Let's face it: Most men are clueless when it comes to approaching women and they make a lot of costly mistakes. Are you making these same mistakes? If you are, I can almost guarantee that it's turning away women you could be DATING right NOW.
Keep in mind that I am writing this article for the average looking guy. If you have Brad Pitt looks and the body of Adonis, you could make some minor mistakes, and get away with them, as you'd have more flexibility and room for error.
There are a lot of mistakes men repeatedly make upon first approaching women and the following is a list of the top 10:

Approaching Women Mistake 1

*Interrogation
Approaching women and asking too many rapid fire questions, "What do you do? Come here often? What do you study? Where do you normally hang out? Was Colonel Sanders really a military colonel?”
This is trying too hard to establish rapport and if you're an attractive woman who is hit on 20 times a day, it becomes plain boring conversation after a while.
It's fine ask a couple of questions in the proper context, and these may vary based on the circumstances, but playing a game of 20 questions is almost a sure way to get yourself blown out.

Approaching Women Mistake 2

*Poor Body Language
Poor body language and poor demeanor. This includes leaning in, groping too fast, not smiling, and touching her awkwardly, which will creep her out.
While carrying yourself in a confident demeanor will help attract her to you, the opposite also holds true. Poor body language makes a person appear needy and desperate.

Approaching Women Mistake 3

*Over-complimenting
Paying her too many compliments. If you're kissing ass, you're blowing your chances. That's as simple as you can get. You can forget the dear-Abbey advice that tells you to walk up to her and kiss her ass. That advice and $3.85 will get you a cup of cappuccino these days.
And by the way, guess what, if she is truly a knockout, she knows it. Do you walk up to Bill Gates and say, “Hey man, you're rich! That's cool!” He knows.
If you're going to pay a compliment, make sure it's a deserved one. Please stay away from creepy compliments, “Nice legs, nice butt, nice curves.” Those types of compliments at best will get you a polite “Thank You” and at worst will creep her out.

Approaching Women Mistake 4

*Not smiling.
This one isn't a complete mistake as it may not necessarily blow your chance. However, a friendly smile or even a smirk will go a long way in making her feel more at ease. Plus smiling displays confidence and that's attractive. More on that later.

Approaching Women Mistake 5

*Offering to buy her a drink.
Again, it's not going to necessarily blow your chances, but you're wasting your money.
Take out that 10 dollar bill and use it as a piece of toilet paper because that's what you're doing when your opening line is, “Can I buy you a drink?”
Plus it puts her in an awkward position. Let's say she is actually a cool girl who just isn't interested for whatever reason at that moment. If she refuses your free drink, now she'll be perceived as a bitch who turned down your generous offer. If she takes your offer, now she feels like she has an obligation to entertain you for a period of time.
You would have been much better off just having a nice conversation with her.
(And I am not even delving into the gold-diggers who prey on suckers and chumps to buy them free drinks all night, every single time they go out.)

Approaching Women Mistake 6

*Self-deprecating humor
Self-deprecating humor is not attractive. Unless you're a cool, suave, confident motherf***er, stay away from this. For the average guy, this makes you look insecure.
Neurotic Woody Allen humor might get you laughs, but they'll be in conjunction with bits of sympathy. She'll probably never feel attraction for you.

Approaching Women Mistake 7

*Being Pre-disqualified
If you're at a bar/night club, and you're standing around HOVERING around certain girls just ogling at them, they will notice. Know that women stronger intuition than you, and they know you're there. Trust me on this, even if they are not looking at you, they know of your existence.
If you are hovering around for no reason, and/or standing in a corner just gawking at the girls, you're pre-disqualified. You've already been written off like an end of the year bad business expense.
When you do finally approach, no matter how great you think you're opening line is, you're climbing an uphill battle.

Approaching Women Mistake 8

*Mundane Conversation
Talking about 1 subject the whole time. So you started a conversation, it's going well, and you're having a nice dialogue but it's about the same damn topic for the entire time.
Let's say you're both into working out, or restaurants, or hot rods for that matter. So you talk about this one-subject for 20 minutes.
While at first, this seems like you're building rapport, you're shooting yourself in the foot pal. She'll feel like you have nothing else to discuss afterwards and she won't be too apt to meet you again. You may get a phone number, but she'll most likely flake in this scenario.

Approaching Women Mistake 9

*Bad Breath
OK, I know you're thinking, “Oh come on Cameron! Are you really going to mention the obvious?” Yes! Because you'd be surprised how many people walk around with bad breath. And if I can't stand it, imagine how she feels. While you're trying be suave, she'd be looking for a fire escape.

Approaching Women Mistake 10

*Being overly Nervous
This is the # 1 Mistake. Sorry fellas, being nervous is not attractive. While there may be a few girls here and there who find it cute, most women want a confident man. I don't care what the pop psychologists or “Experts” on the radio and TV tell you, being nervous and fidgety is unattractive. (disclaimer: even confident men experience a bit of nervous energy, or a rush, and that's OK.)
I am talking about being a nervous wreck that is very apparent. This will kill your chances faster than showing up in a job interview drunk and topless.

The good news is that you can do something about it. The biggest mistake men make is to try and be macho because they don't want to admit to themselves that perhaps they can use a bit of help in this area. Once upon a time, I really didn't know what to say upon approaching a beautiful woman. Finally, I decided to do something about it.

In fact, I became so obsessed with it that I learned from everyone I could and I teach this stuff! I walk into social venues with men and teach them how to meet women right there live and in person. You may not ever want to be a teacher in this field, but you owe it to yourself in learning how to approach and ATTRACT Women better. Yes, it can be learned. Yes, it's possible. Yes, you can learn to become more confident and skilled.


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