Wednesday, January 27, 2010

0 How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

"How do I ask THIS girl on a date?"

This is something many a guy has wondered when talking to a girl
for the first time.

He's enjoys talking to her, think she's attractive, and wants to
see her again.

But he doesn't know how to ask her out.

So what's the secret to getting that first date?

The truth is there isn't a magical formula for asking a girl out.

Most of the time, a conversation filled with flirting and sexual
tension will NATURALLY flow into making plans for a future
encounter:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

However with that being said, there are a few rules and
guidelines to follow if you want to turn a first conversation
into a date:

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#1- Flirty Conversations
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Above ALL things, a woman HAS to enjoy the conversation she's
having with you! If she's glancing around the room and looking
for a chance to escape, then a date with her will NOT be in your
future.

To make her want to date you, she HAS to feel sexual attraction.

Unless you create a feeling of chemistry, the BEST that can
happen is she'll think of you as a "great friend"...YUCK!

When you're talking to a girl, you MUST create sexual tension
by knowing how to use basic flirting techniques. (Here's a
place that can help you do this):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

You can flirt by teasing her, joking around, playing flirty
games, telling stories, and establishing rapport. All of
these tactics will help you spark her interest.

The truth is the MORE you successfully flirt at this point, the
EASIER it'll be to get that date! Use the first 10-15 minutes
of the conversation to your advantage. Show her that you're a
guy that she NEEDS to see again!

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#2- Test Her Reaction
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EVERYTHING you need to know about a girl's interest is found in
her body language. In fact, it's been proven that 90% of all
human communication is done on a non-verbal level.

So even if she's smacking you and telling you "what a jerk you
are", her body language is saying something COMPLETELY
different.

If you want to see if she's interested in a date, you have to
study her reaction to your flirting conversation.

Here's your goal... When talking to this girl, you have to
sky-rocket her sexual attraction. Whether it takes a few
minutes OR a few hours, you must build your conversation to the
point where you KNOW she's attracted to you.

How can you tell?

Well...EVERY woman has a NUMBER of signals which indicate her
level of interest. Here are some common signs of attraction:

~~~> She keeps the conversation going by asking you personal
questions

~~~> She's touching you throughout the conversation

~~~> She's laughing and fully engaged in what you have to say

~~~> She's teasing YOU back whenever you're joking with her

~~~> She starts to hint about what you like to do and ask what
you're doing during the week.

Now I personally think a lot of these are OBVIOUS signs of
interest. Unfortunately most guys don't seem to pick them up.

The honest truth is MOST of the time you'll simply *feel* when
"it's on" and when it isn't. Use these signs as a guideline NOT
as the absolute truth!

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#3- Asking for the Date
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A lot of guys place TOO much emphasis on bringing girls on the
PERFECT date.

My advice?

If you want to impress her, don't TRY to impress her.

Confused yet?

The BEST date idea isn't something elaborate. Instead it's
bringing her to an activity that you would NORMALLY do during
the week. AND you ask her in a way that does NOT come across
as a date request.

When the conversation is going well, simply think about what you
have going on during the upcoming week. (In the following site,
you'll learn the importance of being a guy who is out there
doing fun, interesting things):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

If you follow this advice, you should doing a LOT of things...
Are you meeting friends at a bar? Are you going to a concert
or sporting event? Even easier, are you going to the mall to
shop?

A date shouldn't be a formal, fancy event. It should a fun,
casual activity that gives you a chance to deepen the connection
you had during the first conversation.

The point is this. If you've done the previous two steps
correctly (flirt and spark interest), she'll WANT to see you
again.

At the moment when she's laughing AND having fun, you casually
mention what you're doing during the week. THEN simply invite
her to come along with whatever you're doing and get her number.

It's really that simple.

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#4- Text and Call For Re-Attraction
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Here's a FINAL step to ensure that this number turns into a
date....

Without going to into TOO much detail here, women OFTEN get
"buyer's remorse" when giving out their number. If you want to
keep her interest, you MUST maintain that sense of sexual
tension during the period between the number exchange and the
first date.

Bottom line is you have to work on RE-ATTRACTING her.

The essence of this technique is you call and text her to keep YOU
in the forefront of HER mind. By STRATEGICALLY calling and
texting her with flirty messages, she'll subconsciously
anticipate your next encounter:

(There are bonus items here which explains how to call and text
women in a way that builds sexual attraction):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

Asking a girl on a date doesn't have to be a complicated process.
As long as you're creating that fun vibe, it's easy to make her
interested in seeing you again.



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