Wednesday, January 27, 2010

0 7 Ways To Unlock Her Wild Side

Today I'm going to share with you a secret most
men will NEVER know about women. Here it is:

Girls are just as wild... if not WILDER... in
bed than you are!

The problem is that most guys never get to SEE
that hidden wild side in women, because they don't
know what to do to make them comfortable enough to
let it out.

Here are 7 things you can do starting TONIGHT to
get YOUR girl to become more wild and fun in the
sack... and even act out some of those crazy
fantasies you've been wanting to try...

1. Talk Sex OUTSIDE The Bedroom

Most couples save all of their sex talk for when
they are actually in the bedroom, which is NOT the
best time to have those talks AT ALL!

Instead, bring up sex during other times, such
as when you see a hot scene in a movie, or hear
about a new celebrity couple.

For example, joke with her about how she probably
just wanted to watch a movie for the sex scene in
it... or ask her how bad she thinks the latest
reality tv star is in bed on a scale of 1 - 10.

The point is to make sex talk a normal part of
your conversations, so she knows that you are
really comfortable with the topic. This casual sex
talk outside the bedroom makes for more intimate
talk inside the bedroom, and that's what you want!


2. Make Mixing Things Up A Habit

If you're doing the same type of sex "routine"
every time, all you are doing is encouraging your
girl to fall into a routine too!

Instead, make mixing things up a habit. Make it a
point to undress her differently each time, or let
her undress you first. Kiss her neck when you
usually would kiss her on the ear. Or get it on
outdoors, or someplace other than your bed. This
encourages her to try different things as well!


3. Start Small

Listen, I know it's tough, but you just can't go
from having the same old "vanilla" sex with a girl
to having threesomes and putting on that furry
costume you've been eyeing (haha gotcha =) ). You
need to start with small things that are just
SLIGHTLY out of the norm.

Get one of those feathers and give her a tickle
with it, or surprise her by pulling an ice cube
out of your bedside cocktail and teasing her
nips. Neither of these things will freak a
woman out, but they do let her know you are
ADVENTUROUS and get her in the mood to try new
things!


4. Ask Her

Don't be afraid to ask her, "Have you ever seen
anything in sex scenes in movies that you wanted
to try?" It's an easy way to bring it up, and you
might be surprised at her answers!


5. Explore Naughty Environments

Exploring environments where the naughtyness is
built in, is a surefire way to find out more about
what types of things she might go for... and get
her in a naughty mood at the same time.

This could be as simple as going into an ordinary
bookstore and "accidentally" wondering into the
sex book section, or visiting a full-blown sex
shop.

Another trick is to get a company to send you a
catalog of sex toys in the mail... have it addressed
to a different name and pretend it was a mistake
if you are feeling shy ;)


6. Make A "No Way" List

When you are talking about things she DOES want to
try, ask her to tell you what's on her "No Way"
list. What types of things has she heard of that
she would NEVER try? Give an example that is "out
there" to get things started... say, "For example,
you'd never want to put on a bugs bunny suit or
anything, right? What else?" This will get her to
list the things that totally turn her off so YOU
know what they are and avoid rejection.


7. Play The "Surprise Game"

Tell her you want to play a game where each of you
will surprise the other with something new to try
in the bedroom. It doesn't have to be anything
risque... it could be a new position or just a new
place to get it on.

The point is to create a fun, spontaneous vibe. As
time goes on you can get more and more risque...
introduce toys or even - if you feel the time is
right - ask her if she's ever fantasized about
another girl. Start small and before you know it
she might be surprising YOU with just how naughty
she can be!



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