Some basic truths:

• Women love to be seen as they are...The cute simple girl inside... Even the most beautiful women have insecurities about themselves. They just want a man who is REAL to them and who finds the REAL inside them.
• The best opener is "Hi". She knows that you like her and that's why, she will like you. It's not your whining and griping attitude that attracts her but you being a real man and that you go for her makes her feel special and she is attracted. 
• Don't think you can get each and every woman. Not everyone is normal and not everyone is worth it.
• Women are approached or stared at. They know what is going on. They know how to deal with it. Don't think you are taking her by surprise. You only take her by surprise and she freaks out when you act WEIRD. Just be REAL and NORMAL.

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• Attraction is of two types: only-interest and more-than-interest. Remember, both is interest. But the difference is how she views you. She thinks you are a funny guy...good. She thinks you are a boyfriend material...that's what you want. In the first case, you are befriended. In the latter, she moves it forward. The first is verbal communication. The latter is nonverbal communication. The way you talk, the way you walk, makes her feel something. That's attraction, not just interest.
• Approaching isn't a sin. You can approach her anywhere, anytime. She wants it. You want it. Just use it in an appropriate manner. Use "hi" but in an appropriate manner. Your body language and voice tells her if it is appropriate or not. To tone it down, you can even start with a neutral situational comment and then go on to "hi".
• Emotional Connection = Trust | Comfort = Love