0 Approach in a supermarket

"Hey Lance,

Great stuff on the Banter CD on Surefire
Attraction Secrets. But I'm not clear on how
to use it all the time.

How do I approach in a supermarket?

L, San Antonio TX"
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Talking to a girl in the supermarket was
probably the biggest obstacle to me learning
how to be social and flirty everywhere.

Maybe it's the bright lights, the commerce,
the potential for boyfriends to turn the
corner and catch you mid-grope, whatever. But
it's actually fun when you learn how to enjoy
it.

Once I tested and figured out just how to
break the ice in the supermarket, it became
one of my favorite places.


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Here's how I get my shop on.

Supermarket is a super-normal situation. Act
super-normal. Forget the crazy stuff. Just be
friendly, flirty, and the show you have some
manners.

And keep this in mind... the supermarkets are
full of single girls on weeknights after
work. Single girls who are waiting to meet
someone charming, confident, and yes, NORMAL.

Now's your time to shine.

Follow these steps, and make sure you put
"hottie" on your shopping list this week.

1. Walk in and grab a cart. It makes a
difference. Even if you're just there to
practice flirting, make it look to everyone,
especially yourself, that you fit in.

2. Head towards the back of the store so you
can see who's in which row. Walk along
shopping, and keep your eyes open. When you
find a girl you like, start walking towards
her.

3. Be observant. Look at where she is. It
always helps to be aware of the situation.

4. Make a comment on anything appropriate to
the situation.

You don't need your opener to be clever. Just
appropriate. The trick is to get her
attention, and then start having fun.

5. Here's how it works when you add some
banter to your shopping cart.

"Wow, you got a lot of good food there. I
usually just buy beer and a pack of
Twizzlers."

"Yes, well..."

Now turn on the big smile.

"Perfect. I'll be over for dinner at 7:30...
no, 8. And I'll bring the wine this time...
you just cook that special thing you made for
us last week."

Now is when she smiles and plays along. Keep
playing with it. Talk about how the dinner
last week was great, and you're really
looking forward to a special night. Laugh and
smile and enjoy it. If you have fun, she'll
have fun.

Once she's smiling and having fun, the next
step is easy.

Just introduce yourself. Then talk to the
girl. Have a conversation, and see if there's
something there.

Tested and approved.

Now, because I'm in a good mood, I'm going to
give you one more super-bonus line to use.

"My buddy is having a girl over for dinner.
What should he make?"

"Well, girls always like pasta..."

"Actually, I didn't need to know that. I just
made that up so I could come over here and
flirt with you. Did you not get that? Here,
let me try again.

How you doin'?" :-)

Now I want to see some replies with your
ideas as well. Let's make the supermarket the
new disco.

Yeah baby!

Tell me your best lines. Get out there and
start having fun, and let us know what's
working best for you.

Now go meet some women!

Lance Mason