Thursday, September 17, 2009

0 Approaching women

How to approach a woman?

How BEST to make that initial "move" that is often
so terrifying and nerve-wracking that guys regularly
freeze-up in a social paralysis so powerful they NEVER
even try.

Well, I've got some good news for you Schttrj.

I know 5 rock solid techniques for approaching a woman,
and beginning that first conversation smoothly.

Those 5 skills are:

The Reversal
The Direct Approach
The Environmental/Situational Opener
The Teaser Opener (my personal favorite)
The Opinion Opener

For today, I'd like to cover "The Reversal" as it's
the easiest one to "get".

Here is how it goes Schttrj -

YOU: 
"Excuse me, but are you confident enough to
accept a sincere compliment from a complete
stranger?"

HER: 
"Yeah, sure"

YOU: 
"Me too - you go first!"

(pause as you and her laugh)

YOU: 
"All kidding aside, I couldn't help but notice
your great sense of fashion, and wanted simply to 
compliments your style."

Schttrj, see how powerful an opening that is?

It's both funny and sincere; flirtatious and challenging.

Neil Strauss and I actually created that one at Project
Hollywood. Yeah man, we were sitting around the
kitchen one day and scratched that one out together.

We met back there a few hours later, both with girls
we had just met using THAT script above.

The only catch to it is that you'll need to follow the
opener up with a compliment, OK?

Here's a simple rule (that I will cover in a fuller way
in a few days) to follow when complimenting women.

Never compliment her genetics (ie: her skin, eyes,
legs, boobs, ass, etc); always compliment HER (ie:
her laugh, her fashion sense, her killer bag, her
cool sunglasses, her walk)...see the difference?

You're probably wondering right now, "OK, I got that,
so what do I say next?". Well, we'll discuss that in
our next lesson...one step at a time Schttrj.

Now, for your convenience, I've recorded myself
using the above script so that you can hear ME say it
and discuss it even further.

Now, the other four skills are equally as effective,
and should be part of your social arsenal. If you want
to maximize your chances for meeting beautiful, single
women leading either to a massively successful dating
life and/or a long-term relationship...you'll need these.

It seems rather obvious, but it's worth mentioning:

If you want women in your life, you'd better have some
understanding of HOW to meet them, right?
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