0 #8- Become a Unique Man

Here's some simple math...

Boring = No Attraction = No phone number, date, OR sex.

Think I'm lying? Well, I challenge you to remember ANY time
where you KNEW a woman was bored AND you managed to go home with
her.

I bet you can't think of any!

This means that the goal of ANY first time conversations is to
pique her interest. In other words, do everything you can do
to be interesting and NOT boring.

Now there are a number of "pick up" routine to spark her interest.
However I feel that it's better to simply BE a naturally attractive
guy who is out there doing INTERESTING things.

All of this comes down to becoming a unique man.

Now the other day, I was reading a pretty interesting article in
Men's Health. In a discussion about meeting women, they mention
a study that was done 100,000 cellphone users. What they found
was that most guys stick to about 5 primary locations throughout
theiy day.

So what does this mean to you? It's simple....

Most guys (your competition) live boring predictable lives. They
wake up, go to work (or school), get home, watch some television
or play their video games. Then they go to sleep.

MAYBE once in awhile, they'll participate in a sport or go
drinking with their buddies.

For many, this is a nice, SAFE existence. But let me tell you
something...this type of life won't impress the truly desirable,
remarkable women.

To have extraordinary RESULTS with women, you have to be willing
to go beyond what the 'average' guy would be willing to do.
This means being proactive and becoming a truly UNIQUE man.

This is something that I like to call the "Wow Factor". After a
woman meets you for the first time, she should walk away, thinking
to herself "Wow he was really interesting. I wonder what else
there is know about him?"

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To be unique, you want to demonstrate through your choice of
words that you have a fun life. And you subtly hint that she
*could* be part of it if she measures up.

Being unique means that you're a guy who is out there living an
interesting life (as I mentioned when we talked about "being a
catch")

So what makes you unique? Well this really comes down to YOUR
personal preferences.

Remember...I want to help you become naturally attractive by
enjoying the things that YOU like to do! In other words, I
don't want to do something JUST because you'll think it help
you "pick up chicks".

The key here is to incorporate what you like (or want) to do with
your life into the conversations you have with women. All you
really have to do is use your experiences in the stories that you
tell. Done correctly, you'll demonstrate the qualities of a
naturally attractive guy without coming across as an egotistical
jerk.

For instance, here are some qualities you can showcase when
you're telling a story:

The hobbies you enjoy
~~> The places where you've traveled (or would like to go)
~~> The things you've read
~~> The core philosophy you believe in
~~> The adventures you've had

Truth is we've ALL done interesting things with our lives. The
trick is to KNOW how to use these experiences to come across as a
fun, interesting guy.

But what should you do if you can't think of anything to talk
about in a conversation? The answer is go out there and DO
stuff!

I've found that the best way to develop a unique personality
is to create a plan for experiencing new things. For instance,
ONCE a week, make it a point to do something that you've NEVER
done before.

Take a class on a topic you're not familiar with, attend a fun
event in your local community, read a book on a subject you've
never explored, go to a concert of a musical group you think you
would hate or participate in an unfamiliar sport. And if you
have the time (and money) visit a country that you've never
seen before.

The point behind this exercise is to get out of your 'comfort
zone' and help you develop that UNIQUE personality.

Remember most guys do nothing to spark attraction with their
conversation skills. The guys who DO create interest are the
ones who can project a unique, naturally attractive personality.

So get there and start doing the things that'll make you stand
apart from the crowd!