Wednesday, September 16, 2009

0 Self Confidence

What if I told you, I know a simple way for
you to SKYROCKET your self-confidence, that
was not only EASY, but you could do it every
day...

Would you be interested?

What if I told you that you could do this
easy-as-pie method ANYWHERE, anytime, and no
one would know what you are doing, so it
makes a NO-BRAINER to practice it every day.

Does this sound like something you could use?

What if I told you that with this method, in
LESS than 4 months you would be a TOTALLY
confident man, and that change on the inside
of you would be so obvious on the outside,
that anyone who hadn't seen you over that
time would be visibly SHOCKED at the change.

Could this be useful?

Finally, what if I also told you, that by
using this method, not only would women that
already know you NOTICE a huge change in you,
but that women you had never met would be
ATTRACTED to you?

Would you like to know what it is yet?


The #1 Problem For Men:

Probably the number one concern guys have
(other than getting laid), is often referred
to as 'INNER GAME".

Some guys call it 'Approach Anxiety', some
'Confidence' or 'Self-Confidence', and some
call it 'Fear of Rejection'.  You get the
idea.

And let's face it, this is a REAL issue.

In fact, you don't even have to TELL me if
you have inner game issues, I can spot it a
mile away.

Like I tell guys at my Introductory Seminars,
I know BEFORE you ever open your mouth if you
are going to successfully open a conversation
with a woman.

I can tell you within THREE SECONDS of me
saying "Go talk to her" if she will even give
you the time of day.

And no, I'm not a mind-reader and I can't
predict the future, it's as OBVIOUS to me as
the nose on your face.  That comes from me
coaching so many guys in the field.


The Most Critical Element Of Girl-Attraction:

Women have AMAZING intuitive skills. So if I
can tell you have some inner game junk going
on in your head, then for a woman it's like
it's being broadcast on a GIANT screen TV
with the volume on FULL.

Women can INSTANTLY tell if you've got
something like this going on, just like a dog
can sense when you are afraid.

And though most women won't growl, bare their
teeth, and try to bite you...  I can PROMISE
you they won't find you the LEAST bit
attractive the moment they sense this lack of
confidence.

They might HUMOR you as you approach and chat
with you a bit, but you couldn't get a phone
number out of them if you pulled up in a
Ferrari.

Now get this. A woman is programmed in her
genetic coding to look for that ONE MAN she
is supposed to have s ex with.

Any guy with inner game issues is not going
to be that man, and NOTHING you SAY or DO
will trigger her attraction for you.


The Irony of Teaching PickUp:

What fascinates me, is that guys come to me
knowing they have inner game issues, yet the
first thing they want to know is "What do I
say?" or "How do I approach?"

It's like their subconscious KNOWS exactly
what's most important, but the logical 'guy'
brain takes over and wants a cookbook list of
ingredients.

Ironic isn't it?

Listen, I definitely provide the step-by-step
progression of a pickup in my workshops,
including what to SAY and what to DO.  I
wouldn't be a good teacher if I didn't do
that.

But, I also immediately start working on each
guys inner game, and the really cool part is,
they don't even REALIZE (at first) that this
is happening.


The Dirty Little Secret Of Developing
Unshakable Self-Confidence:

You see, most guys have it ALL WRONG.  They
try like hell to change to get more
confident, to change their inner game issues
from the inside.

They do affirmations.

They try self-hypnosis.

They have a three foot deep stack of self
improvement books, have read everyone of
them, and have another box on it's way from
Amazon.

They have every Tony Robbins CD and listen to
them over and over again.

Now let me be clear on this... all those
thing ARE useful.  Especially for building a
success mindset.

But to create powerful unshakable self-
confidence with women...  at best it's the
LONG road, and in my experience it RARELY
works well.

You can't start with just what's inside.

That's a part of the 'dirty little secret' of
unshakable self-confidence.

This secret is why women can sense your not
the guy they should sleep with.

This dirty little secret is why I can tell
within three seconds if you'll be successful
when we work in the field.

And guess what?  This 'dirty little secret'
has been known for thousands of years in the
ancient cultures, but has been all but lost
to our modern society.

I'll admit, even though it's totally obvious
once you know it, it took me years to figure
it out on my own.

It's simple actually. Much more simple than
you could ever guess.


The Way To Change Inner Game Is Start on The
OUTSIDE!

You see the key is the MIND-BODY CONNECTION.
Like I said, this is something ancient
cultures understand.  You can find it in
traditional practices such as martial arts
and yoga.

In a nutshell, this is how it works from the
inside out...  you have feelings of fear
(approach anxiety, refection, etc.).  As
those feelings amplify it causes a DEFINATE
PHYSICAL CHANGE in your body.

This change is OBVIOUS when you know what to
look for.

As an example, think of how easy it is to
spot when someone you know is depressed.  You
don't say to your self "Gee look at his body,
he must be depressed", you INSTANTLY know
something is wrong.


It Works Both Ways:

What you likely don't know is that this
process is REVERSIBLE.  That simply by
changing his body posture, you can instantly
have an affect on his mood. (it won't 'cure'
him, but it will make him feel better or at
least different)

Are you starting to understand the 'dirty
little secret' yet?

I know when I finally 'got it', my success
with women went through the roof!

And the way I changed my inner game, the way
I gave myself unshakable self-confidence, is
the EXACT same way I can show you how to do
it.

How do I know this will work for you?
Because I see it happen EVERY time I teach a
workshop.

And the really good news is, it doesn't
matter what you LOOK like, your PAST success
with women, or how OLD you are.

When I teach you my specially designed self-
confidence conditioning, all you have to do
is PRACTICE daily and you will begin to
notice a difference IMMEDIATELY.


It's Your Body Talking:

Listen, there is nothing I enjoy more than
seeing my students a couple weeks after
workshop, and being able to notice by their
BODY LANGUAGE that their self-confidence had
a massive jump up.

I can tell by the way each man enters the
room, the way he walks, how he stands, and
how he sits, just how much change has
occurred INSIDE him.

Remember... if I can SEE it, any woman can
ALSO see it, and usually WAY before I do.

There's only one problem, I could write
thousands of pages on this, and you would
never 'get it'.

Sure, you'll have an INTELLECTUAL
understanding of the 'dirty little secret',
and your logical brain will be happy knowing
a new thing.

BUT, if you want to change your inner game,
if you want to develop unstoppable self-
confidence with women, if you want girl-
attracting body language that works the
INSTANT you walk in a room...

I'm not trying to be secretive here, but you
wouldn't begin to understand what this is all
about without SEEING it for yourself.  I
would just screw it up for you trying to
explain in writing...


Because IT'S VISUAL!:

And this is the MOST CRITICAL part of the
attraction equation.

All the opening lines, stories, banter, and
cool clothing won't get you more than a few
SECONDS with a woman once she realizes you
are a quivering puddle of fear on the inside.

Don't get me wrong, all those other parts are
important, but you have to make a powerful
FIRST IMPRESSION and your BODY LANGUAGE is
the single most noticeable element (to a
woman) of your first impression.

If you practice everyday like I tell you, in
less than a month or so, you'll find you can
easily have fun conversations with anyone...
especially beautiful women!

But you must PRACTICE.  This is where guys
drop the ball.


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