The simplest way to move between conversation topics is to simply
not worry about it.
Truth is, people who are close never feel the need to transition
from topic to topic; they just talk naturally.
You want to create a feeling of familiarity. And the best way to
do this is to not look for any connection between the last thing
you said and the next.
Just talk about what you want to talk about.
This is the essence of leadership, where you're taking control of
the conversation.
All you have to say is "Anyway...", then start steer the
discussion towards something else.
#2- Relate to your experiences.
People (especially women) LOVE stories. So a great way to
move between conversation topics is to relate her experiences to
something that you've gone through.
Say something like "Oh my god, that totally reminds me of..."
then start telling her a story that emphasizes your positive
qualities.
This is where it's important to say things that you KNOW women
will find interesting. And if you don't have a lot to talk about
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#3- Responding to her.
One of the easiest ways to move between topics is to find
something in the most RECENT thing she said to start another
topic.
Use her statements to keep feeding the conversation. At some
point, you'll find that you have PLENTY of hidden conversations
to discuss. Either proceed down these paths, or use them as
reserves for later that you can refocus on.
Ask her questions about what just said. Find the POSITIVE
emotion behind what she's telling you. Joke around and tease
her playfully.
To do this, say something like "How did that make you feel?" or
"Oh wow, what was that like?"
Moving between conversations should feel natural to both
participants. All you really need to do is have a few
interesting things to say about yourself and pay close attention
to the things she's telling you.
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