0 How to Approach Women WITHOUT Gimmicks or Tricks

I've learned that sometimes the most DIRECT approach (often
called a "Direct Opener") usually works the best. While a witty
comment or an opinion opener are never to be discredited,
sometimes, the simplest method of starting a conversation can be
your secret women for attracting the interest of a girl.

What do I mean? You simply start a conversation WITHOUT
resorting to using a story, OR asking her opinion, OR spouting
some cheesy pick up line. In essence, you tell her directly that
there's something about her that you find interesting and you
want to know more.

The one thing I recommend for this type of opener is to describe
a quality about her personality rather than her looks. You want to
use a statement that references her actions rather than the fact
that you find her attractive. This will make it seem less like a
pickup line, and more like an honest attempt to start a
conversation:

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Now, during the daytime I often use a powerful variation of this
opener. I simply call it the "Serendipity Opener". With this
conversation starter, you interject a comment about how you're
really busy, but something interesting about her drew your
attention.

In essence, you had to stop what you were doing and talk to her.
Consider approaching her by saying something like this:

"Hey, I'm on my way to [Insert whatever you're doing], but you
seem like a cool person who I had to meet! My name is..."

This opener is the most direct way to start a conversation. All
you do is approach the girl, smile, give her a compliment, and
then tell her that you "just had to meet her." Depending on the
situation (and your preferences), you'll use a different
adjective other than "cool." For instance, some of the words you
could use are:

~~~> Cool
~~~> Interesting
~~~> Fun
~~~> Awesome
~~~> Intriguing

I call this a serendipity opener because it taps into a woman's
desire for romance. Many women want to think that fate will
play a part in the men they meet.

With this opener, there is the belief that your actions are
random. (Even if you've said the same thing to 10 different
women during the day).

Now I do have to say that this type of opener has a high risk
AND a high reward.

When you start a conversation in this manner, you're increasing
the chance of rejection, because a woman only has your appearance
and body language to judge you by. So if you're NOT displaying
a confident demeanor, then she might not be interested.

On the other hand, a direct opener works incredibly well if a
woman likes what she sees. With this type of icebreaker, you're
skipping the small talk that people use when they're not sure
how to act. Instead you instantly vibe because you there's
mutual attraction.

My advice...Use a Direct Opener when you see a girl during the
daytime when there's not a lot of time to talk. Get right to
the point, talk to her for a few minutes if she responds, then
go for her number.

If you approach a few women each day using this technique, you'll
be surprised at how quickly you start to accumulate phone numbers,
and dates!

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