0 4 Sex Tips that will drive her wild...

Sex is a healthy, fundamental component of all good
relationships. It unites men and women everywhere,
both physically and emotionally and allows both the
guy and the girl to truly unleash and express their
animalistic AND sensual sides.

But no one's sex life is perfect - things slow down,
the energy seems to disappear, it's not as fun or
exciting as either of you would like, in short, it
needs improving.


The question is, what can you do to get back (or even
create for the first time) that special spark that makes
great sex so...well, great? Here are 4 top tips.

1. PLAY GAMES. The thing that often grinds sex lives
to a halt and makes lovemaking become so much of a
hassle is the pressure and responsibility that surrounds
the whole subject. For the man, there's the burden of
having to make the girl reach her own climax.

For the woman, there's the strain of making sure her
man is sexually satisfied and not bored and liable to
go looking elsewhere for sex or questioning the stability
and longevity of the relationship they're both in.

To counteract these negative pressures, try making having
sex a less traditional, scheduled, boring task. Instead,
pick a couple of fun games that you can play together that
are fun and flirty and that can lead casually and smoothly
into the actual sex.

Twister, strip poker and spin-the-bottle are all great
games that incorporate physical contact and allow both
you and your partner to have a little no-hassle,
no-responsibility fun that does or doesn't have to
lead to a bout of impromptu lovemaking.

2. NEW LOCATIONS, NEW POSITIONS. People often have
a very 2-dimensional outlook on the nature of sex
and how one should go about having it. The vast,
vast majority of people, for example, only have
sex in the bedroom.

And even they have a set routine, lights dimmed
or off, the same progression through the various
stages of sex: a little foreplay, intercourse in
missionary and maybe doggy if the guy's lucky and
the girl is feeling up to it, then it's pretty much
over.

Even if your personal situation has more life
than that, sex in the bedroom can still become
a drag after a while.

So, switch it up. Think about different locations
you can use: the living room, bathroom, kitchen...
consider all possibilities, even if they at first
seem far-fetched and silly.

Also, think about locations away from the home once
in a while. Motels and cheap hotels offer a couple
a fresh place to explore each other.

Secondly, improvise and experiment with the positions
you use. Missionary, girl on top, spoons, and doggy
are all great, but always try to mix in a few more
unusual, adventurous ones to spice things up.

Even if you find yourself in a tangle with your partner,
you've still had fun and been spontaneous, which
is a key component of any great sex life.

3. COMMUNICATE FANTASIES. Something few men and women
do is talk to their partners about what turns them on,
about things they'd like to try, scenarios they'd love
to act out, etc. etc.

Make telling your partner about things that turn you on
a regular thing and, in return, you listen to their
previously private fantasies and day-dreams.

If doing it face-to-face is too embarrassing, consider
sending saucy messages via email or text message. You'll
find that after reading about what really gets your partner
going, you'll be much more excited and motivated to please
them sexually, and they'll feel the same way back!

4. SPECIAL OCCASIONS. When you do the same thing many times,
even if it started out feeling new and exciting, it can get a
little run-of-the-mill and boring. So, to inject a real sense
of passion and renewed excitement into your sex life, make
certain evenings special nights in (or out, then in!).

Go the whole way to making it feel almost like a celebration
and do whatever's necessary to separate it from your usual lovemaking sessions. Popular favourites include getting dressed
up separately from your partner, perhaps at a friend's house,
then meeting them in a restaurant for a meal.

Then, on returning home, you can indulge each other with a
slow and sensual massage or perhaps carry out one or more of
the fantasies you've been hinting to each other about. From
there, sex can begin - maybe on the floor of the living room
or even on the stairs - remember, impulsiveness and
adventurousness are a turn on, use them to kick-start your
sex life.

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