0 #1 secret of 'pickup artists'...

I get asked a lot, what it's like to be a
famous "pickup artist?"

It has become a popular term recently. There
was that bestselling book "The Game," and then
reality TV shows like "Pick-up Artist" and "Beauty
and the Geek..."

But let's talk a little about the term "pick-up
artist" for just a second.

What does the term really mean?

Well, in my opinion, a pickup artist is a guy who
cultivates specific skills - a system - to attract
beautiful women so that he will get an advantage
in the dating and seduction game.

Does being a pickup artist mean that he's a
bad guy?

A jerk?

A woman-hater?

No, not at all. However, as I'm about to tell you,
many of the so-called "pick-up artists" don't
comprehend the true nature of these skills...
or how they SHOULD be used.

Many of these pick-up artists (PUAs, as they're
often called) just want to be able to "stack"
things in their favor, because they feel hurt
or insecure about the fact that women control
the sex.

The problem is that some of these guys think
it's about tricking or manipulating women, to
build up their own low self-esteem.

But if you're like me, you just want a level
playing field when it comes to dating and
attracting women.

No one plays more games than women do! You
know I'm right. They flirt with us, and then play
"hard to get"...they ACT like they're into us, and
then they don't return phone calls...and then
when you get into a relationship, that can be
when the mind games REALLY start...

And what about the girls you meet at the
bars or the nightclubs? They're all dressed
up, looking hot, and you would THINK they
came out tonight to meet a guy...but all they
do is BLOW OFF the guys that have the guts
to approach them!

Look, I love and respect and women. I'm sure
you do, too. But I say it's time to stop playing
these silly games and letting women have ALL
the power.

I want to help you SHOW women why you're the
guy they should be with.

I know you want to ATTRACT women in an authentic
way, and stop feeling like you're "auditioning" every
time you try to start a conversation with a girl.

And I know you DON'T want to rely on cheesy
"pickup lines," or tricking women into liking you.
Because let's face it -- "pickup techniques" might
get you in the door with a girl, but you're never
going to get a quality girlfriend that way.

So if you asked me, "Dean, aren't you a
pick-up artist?"

No, I'm not.

I'd describe myself as a very social person.
I'm fascinated by the way people interact and
relate to each other. The "social dynamics"
that go on between us. And I've learned that
people (especially women) can be VERY predictable.

This means you can BECOME a charming, charismatic,
attractive person -- IF you understand what makes
women tick, and the "triggers" that activate their
attraction instincts.

At the end of the day though, "getting women" is
just one part of feeling successful. I could teach
you to go out there and lie to women, and manipulate
them, and get them into bed...but then I'd DEFINITELY
be a "pick up artist," and I wouldn't be doing you
any favors, really.

I'd rather help you adopt a new attitude towards
dating, and a set of skills, that are going to help
you tonight...tomorrow...and for the rest of your life.
(Once you're in a relationship, being a "Mack"
means your girl will STAY attracted to you...because
you'll be a super-confident, dynamic, charismatic guy
she'd be crazy to leave!)

It's like the saying goes, "You can give a man a
fish, and feed him for a day...or you can TEACH a
man to fish, and feed him for a lifetime."

When I realized how fortunate I was to
figure out a set of techniques and strategies
for attracting women -- methods that seriously
work --  that's when I wrote M.A.C.K. Tactics,
and then The Alpha Rules.

I decided I would help other guys race up the
learning curve and stack the deck the correct
way: by living an overall LIFESTYLE they could
be proud of, and that women would flock to.

You see, when you become more socially savvy
and aware, you stop being merely a "pickup
artist" and you become the ALPHA - the leader
of the pack, the man that women cannot resist.

YOU control the attention structure of the
tribe - your circle of friends, your family,
your co-workers... You are the ALPHA.

Now the first skill you really need to work on
is your social networking ability.

I know you want to get more women in your life,
but the most important step in being attractive
to women is to be attractive to almost everyone
around you.

You see, something we noticed about ourselves
and all the other people out there that got
really good with women was that they were all
genuinely interested in other people. Even if
they considered themselves "shy," they still
found reasons to initiate comfortable
conversations with other people.

If you go out with the idea in your head that
you're only going to talk to this one attractive
woman in the store - or the bar, or the party,
or wherever - you're actually hurting your chances
at getting her interested in you.

Yes, you read that right. If you go out trying
to do "pickup" on women when you go out, you
make it worse for yourself over the long run.

A guy will think about approaching a hot woman
so much that he ends up creating a very insecure
and nervous vibe when he finally does go up and
talk to a woman. She senses this - immediately -
and it's the one thing that will freak her out
and repulse her.

Instead, what he should be doing is reducing
that level of anxiety and intense focus so that
when he's in any social situation, he's already
conditioned to talk to anyone around him.

One way to accomplish this is to do an exercise
like this:

The next time you're in a line or queue for
a movie, or your grocery store, anyplace at
all, just turn sideways and look at the person
behind you or near you for a second. (It doesn't
matter if it's a man or woman for the purposes
of our exercise.)

Ask yourself: What do you think his/her story is?

Take a good long look (without making it obvious
that you're doing so). Imagine one thing you would
ask them if you had just encountered them in another
social situation. Then, look away and glance at a
magazine for a second to forget about that person
and lower your anxiety about them.

Then, just as you feel relaxed, turn back and ask
them your question.

The key to this exercise is that you have to
feel like an authority -someone who has a right
to talk to strangers, and that you are not doing
anything "wrong" or "weird" by talking to them.

As Eleanor Roosevelt once said:

"No one can make you feel inferior without
your consent."

Feel justified and empowered, no matter what
the other person's response is.

If this is too much to do initially, then you
can warm up a little by just chatting up the
clerk or someone who has to talk to you because
of their job. This will take some of the edge
off the conversation and allow you to move
further along, and also remove some of the
mental angst of talking to "strangers."

You want to talk to as many people as you
can in your day-to-day lifestyle, so that
when it comes time to talk to the women
that really matter to you, it will feel
much more natural to her.

Being a good pickup artist is what a lot
of guys aspire to, only to discover that
what they were really doing all along was
being a naturally interesting person.

You can do better... you can become
3-dimensional and genuine with women
through M.A.C.K. Tactics.

A lot of guys have read Neil Strauss'
book "The Game" and now think that the
clever openers and one-liners that he
talks about will work for them.

It might, but it probably won't.

Why not?

Because you have to have the ability to
project your personality with any technique,
or women will see right through you and walk away.

Trust us. We used to do it the same way:

   - Walk up to woman

   - Use clever line or witty opener

   - Apply a "neg hit" or some other technique to
     play off her self-esteem

   - Close by asking her for her phone number.

What we found was that we got really good at getting
numbers, but without the right Alpha Man Attitude,
women weren't buying into it. Second dates were
rare, and sex was unlikely.

You need techniques that will work anywhere,
on any woman, and at any time. This strategy
will also yield you more personal success and
fulfillment than any other "seduction program"
out there.


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