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When you think about striking up a conversation with a girl,
how do you picture it going in your mind?

Be honest now...

If you're like 90% of guys, you think conversation is about
getting to know her, having her get to know you, and just
being casual and laidback.

Just go with the flow, right?

Well, NOT if you want to get results.

If you want to GUARA.NTEE that you get her phone number and
meet her for a date in the future ... or, bring her home
TONIGHT (if the situation allows for it) ... you've got to
get STRATEGIC with the way you converse with women.

Conversation is a TOOL that is going to get you where you want
to go.  But in order to use this tool correctly, you've got
to learn how to apply it and MASTER it.

This means no more awkward silences, while you wonder what
to say next ... or feeling phony because you're relying on
some stupid "pickup routine" you learned from some
so-called guru (who probably has trouble getting laid
himself).

As a MAN, you're going to CONTROL the conversation and
guide it along.

You're not just talking aimlessly, going with the flow,
chatting about whatever topic she brings up.

There is going to be a definite PURPOSE to every
conversation you initiate with a woman, and a RESULT you are
steering it towards.

See, when a "MAN" converses with a woman, it SEEMS like a
normal conversation ... on the surface.

The woman doesn't suspect anything out of the ordinary: he
just seems like a cool guy who has interesting things to say.

But under the surface, he is executing a game plan.

He is building a RAPID CONNECTION with her.

He makes her feel a level of COMFORT with him that the
average guy couldn't create, even after spending hours with
her!

I swear by this stuff. When I meet a girl and converse
for ten minutes with her, I create a sense of COMFORT
and FAMILIARITY that most guys would never get after
spending two hours on a date with her.

One of my students, Greg, has gotten really good at
this. If you see Greg at a bar chatting with a girl,
they'll be laughing, touching each other's arms,
looking like a couple who've known each other for a
long time.

But usually, this is a girl that Greg met only MINUTES ago!

Now THAT'S the "magic" that happens when a guy "gets it".

Greg "got it" and he was then able to easily cut through
all the crap, all the awkwardness and phoniness, and
you create a REAL connection.

How would you feel if YOU could do the same?

Think about the POWER and CONFIDENCE you'll have as you're
out with women.

Women can "sense" these "things".

... and they'll *secretly* love it to death!

It makes them feel safe, secure; being with a REAL man,
at the same time, feeling all *girly girl* inside.

What if you could ALSO learn how to slip through the
BARRIERS that women put up (this is their natural defense
mechanism which they use to "screen out" all the WRONG guys).

In the Women Persuasion Mastery Program:

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We go into a lot of  detail about this. You'll learn ALL of
the steps that go into making a successful approach, building
a bond, establishing comfort and rapport, and leading the
encounter towards "closing the deal."

For now, let's run down a few key pointers:

Keep the spotlight on her. Women love a man who
listens and appreciates what she has to say. The
more details she shares about herself, the stronger
the connection grows. (It's all about knowing how
to ask the right questions. Phrasing is everything.)

Cut through the small talk and take it to a deeper
level. Don't get stuck talking about jobs. Mention
the things you are most passionate about, and get
her to share hers.

(Get her to reveal a goal or a dream of hers, and
be encouraging and supportive, and you're really
in the door ... )

If you're passionate about your work, that's great.
But don't dwell on the present. Talk about future
possibilities.

And remember, if you're not yet where you want to
be, in terms of money and success, you can generate
strong attrac.tion from women if you show AMBITION
and PASSION.

(The Women Persuasion Mastery Program has an amazing section
on this as well)

You see, an ambitious, passionate guy makes her feel,
"this guy's life is on an exciting, positive track. It
would be cool to be a part of it."

Maintain a sense of mystery. During the initial
conversation, it's best to leave questions about
yourself unanswered. Make her want to find out more.

Here are some examples...

Which sounds better?

"I work at a restaurant."

Or...

"I work in the restaurant industry. Right now I'm
learning all I can about the business, because a few
years from now I plan on opening my own place. It's
always been a goal of mine. What about you...I get the
sense you're an ambitious person, is there a goal
you're working towards right now?"

(Here, you demonstrated ambition and passion, then you
turned the spotlight back onto her.)

Which sounds better?

"I'm between jobs right now..."

Or...

"I'm checking out a number of different business
opportunities right now, I like to stay busy. What
about you, how do you spend your days when you're
not working?"

Or, you might have achieved some success in your
career. In this case, don't boast about it or go
into detail.

Just ALLUDE to the fact that you're a sharp,
successful guy with even bigger things on the horizon.

"Let's just say I'm good at what I do and I'm very
well compensated. The hours are long, but I love it...
and I'm learning so much right now that I'm looking
into launching my own business. Have you ever thought
about starting your own business?"

Any negative can be spun into a positive, and any
positive can be phrased so that it BUILDS YOU UP in
her eyes.

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