0 #6 - Command Respect From People

We've all heard about the famous French emperor named Napoleon.
He was a man who was widely respected (and feared) by those
around him.

One of my favorite quotes from Napoleon was how he could easily
get a man to risk his life in the hopes of getting a ribbon on
his uniform (Sorry if I didn't get the exact wording right).h

What's interesting about Napoleon is the fact that he wasn't a
physically imposing person. In fact, he was a pretty short guy
who wasn't very dangerous looking.

But even though Napoleon was a short guy, he STILL commanded a
TON of respect from most of the people that knew him.

What's interesting is Napoleon had the belief that he was BORN to
lead men. And he exuded this over-confidence when dealing with
people. (That's why short, but cocky guys are often labeled as
having a 'Napoleon Complex')

Now when it comes to women, you have to exude the attitude that YOU
are the type of guy who commands respect from the people that you
meet.

Anyone who's ever worked in the corporate environment has
witnessed a man who commands respect.

This person is usually on an executive level, and what's more is
that he knows he does so through his actions. Simply walking into
the boardroom is enough to make everyone beneath them notice.

Commanding respect is the impression you leave for people. In a
sense, you respect yourself enough to know that you are equal to
those around you, if not more so. I mentioned the corporate
boardroom, but you can apply this technique to your love life as
well.

Now respect FIRST starts by your body language. When a guy walks
into a room, you instinctively KNOW if he's to be respected (or
not). This isn't something that's verbalized. Instead it comes
from the way that he carries himself.

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Next, respect comes from your ability to respect YOURSELF.

This means that you create a series of do's and don'ts on the
type of behavior you expect from those you date. By commanding
respect from the women you pursue, you are controlling your
dating lifestyle. You don't make errors due to insecurity, and
you know that you have just as much (if not more) to offer the
woman as she has to offer you.

You keep your stature equal to or better than the women you're
dating.

This sounds pretty harsh, but it's important to explain to EVERY
woman that you don't tolerate certain behaviors. You can give
her one or two "strikes", but if she continues with her
disrespectful behavior, you're not afraid to walk away.

At first, you might be a little afraid to stand your ground with
a woman. Especially if she's good looking. But when you do
this enough, you'll start to internalize this belief. And
eventually women will instinctively know when they're about to
break one of your rules--- Without you saying a word!

Just remember that Napoleon didn't need to be the biggest or
the baddest to get respect. All he had was the inner belief
that he was the best!