0 #4- Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower

Women want men to act like men, and part of displaying your
masculinity is to display courage and confidence. With that said,
YOU have to be the one to take things to the next level.

This means that YOU be the one to take the initiative. Be the
one to ask her out. Make the first move. And act like a man who
is not afraid to take things to the next level.

Besides being the one responsible for progressing the
relationship, a man also has to put effort into keeping it alive.
One of the harsh realities of dating is that women get bored...
REALLY quickly.

If you're not providing a fun, exciting experience, then you run
the risk of forcing her to find a guy who will!

A lot of times, women will settle when it comes time to pick a
romantic partner. Usually, this comes from a fear of being alone
or not finding a comfortable relationship.

The problem is, while they're in a stable situation, most women
secretly yearn for the guy who can provide them with a bit of
excitement. Someone who acts like a "leader of men."

Women want a guy who is not afraid to take action. This is a
quality that stems from the way we evolved as human beings.

The "leaders of men" were often the most sexually desirable. When
a woman would select a mating partner, she would inevitably
gravitate towards the guys who were a cut above the rest... the
leaders.

So what draws a woman to a leader of a group?

Most of the time, this type of guy wasn't the smartest, best
looking, or even the toughest, but the leader did have one
quality...

He could control the actions of other men.

So how do you display the leadership quality?

The best way to demonstrate this trait is through your actions.
With women, you can't tell them that you're a leader - you have
to show it through the things that you do.

First off, this quality is illustrated clearly through the way
YOU make decisions. Whereas the inferior male waffles in his
choices, the Leader in charge is decisive.

He's able to quickly access a situation and make an instant
decision. In order to "stand out from the crowd," you should make
decisive choices and have the confidence to stick by them.

Another way to show leadership is through the way you handle
social interactions. The leader is somebody who can control a
conversation, but ensures that everyone is included.

Furthermore, a guy like this is somebody who enjoys planning an
activity or taking charge of an event. Instead of allowing others
to make decisions, the leader is the one who everyone looks to for
good times or excitement. In essence, he's the focal point of any
interaction!

Finally, you can identify a leader by his body language. In a
social interaction, he's somebody who:

Makes strong eye contact with everyone

• Is the center of a conversation
• Moves at the front of the pack as a group travels
• Seems relaxed and casual
• Tells interesting stories that captivate everyone's attention

As you can see, there are a lot of qualities and traits that
capture the essence of a leader. The important thing to remember
is that you should always be the person who is in charge of your
social circle.

Don't rely on others to take charge.

Instead, be the guy who everyone looks to for an exciting
experience.


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