0 #3- Be a Mystery Around Women

I think the BEST way to start our discussion of 'being a mystery'
around women is to mention something I learned from the infamous
"Pick Up Artist" NAMED Mystery.

A great principle he taught was the idea of 'The Cat String
Theory'. Simply put, this principle compares a woman to a
playful cat...

Like a feline, you can get her attention by dangling a string.
You attract her interest the MOST when you maintain that level
of sexual tension. To use this metaphor, you want to "dangle a
string" in front of her and NEVER give her EXACTLY what she
wants which will keep her pursuing you.

Aloof behavior often makes a woman want you more, and the root of
this is MYSTERY.

With this trait, you want to be the guy who she never fully
understands. Nor are you someone who behaves in a predictable,
boring manner.

To apply this technique, you want subtly maintain that distance
(while not being an asshole about it).

Don't pick up the phone every time she calls, and wait a while
before calling her back. Have other priorities in your life, that
way (when she wants to go out) you have options and other
obligations.

There's a very well-known economic theory called the Law of
Scarcity. Put simply, a good's value increases as its
availability decreases. This same principle is easily applied to
romance, as it is only human nature to want something you cannot
have.

While you want to maintain a certain level of mystery with a
girl, don't use it to take advantage of insecurity. Controlling
or hurting a person is never right, and it very often comes back
to haunt you.

By being mysterious, you're merely showing that you have options
and could walk away at any time.

To maintain a level of mystery while in conversation, do not rush
to reveal all the qualities about yourself. The idea is to make
HER work to find out more about YOU. Sometimes you can create
attraction by NOT saying something and maintain that hint of
mystery.

While you previously learned the importance of selling yourself
to a woman, it's also important to know the value of modesty.
Instead of giving her a crash course in all of your
accomplishments, discuss your life in vague terms, and let HER
fill in the blanks.

Don't be too candid about how you spend your time.

Direct the conversation by asking the questions, making the
statements, and discussing the things that you want brought up.

In addition, never reveal something about yourself that may make
the woman disqualify you. Tell stories about yourself solely for
the purpose of revealing your personality, nothing more.

Finally it's pretty easy to tell when you're the embodiment of
this principle. If you find that a woman is asking YOU a bunch
of questions about your background, then you know she's trying
hard to find out what makes you tick.

So answer SOME of her questions, but don't be too quick to
detail everything you've done in your life.

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