0 #9- Demonstrate Your High Value

From the start of civilization, a man's level of attraction is in
direct proportion to his social status. This means that the guys
who are the top of the pecking order usually got the most
desirable women.

The problem is it's pretty HARD to demonstrate high value when
you're in a social setting like a bar or club. In venues like
this, it's the WOMEN who start with the higher status.

Men come up to them, buy drinks, and generally work hard to
attract them. As a result, this gives women the power to pick
and choose who they want to be with.

This is an important thing to learn. In order to prove that
you're on the same level as her, you must demonstrate that you
have the SAME amount of status as her (or better).

In fact, during your entire relationship with a woman you have
to maintain that idea that you're at LEAST on the same level of
status. If you don't, then you risk losing her to a guy who
does.

Your goal for any initial conversation is to increase your VALUE
as a person in her eyes. Doing this is one of the quickest ways
to create attraction.

On the other hand, if you fail to show basic value, then the BEST
thing you can hope for is a friendship.

I know it sounds brutal, but a woman won't want to be with a guy
who show slittle-to-no value. If no one else wants you, why
would she?

Now when you first meet a woman, she'll assume that you have the
same amount of status as the other guys who approach her. It's
YOUR job to show that you're a cut above the rest, and you're a
person who is on the same page as her.

This may sound like a no-win situation for us guys, but there's
a paradox...women are naturally drawn to guys who have equal or
higher power to them

That's why you should actively do what's known as
demonstrating high status. In essence, showing your value is a
way to radiate the important qualities about yourself that you
want women to know.

There are different ways you can show your status.

First, you can make her witness your status. For instance, one of
the traits of an attractive man is that he's pre-selected by
women. You can demonstrate this trait by talking to many women,
flirting with them, and generally having a good time.

Women will place a lot of value on what they see with their own
two eyes.

Another way is to be notified by a different source. This is
almost like a personal recommendation from somebody else which
gives a lot of credence. A great technique to do this is to bring
along a "wing man" when you're out, and have him brag about your
accomplishments.

Next, you can just tell her. Showing high status can be done
through a variety of fun little games, routines, and techniques.
This includes, but is not limited to, telling stories that
discuss the positives of your life.

Finally you can demonstrate high status by simply KNOWING that
you have a lot to offer the world. It is for this reason that you
never give away your time or company for free...

...It has to be earned!

If a girl asks you for something, ask her what she's going to
give you in return. (This is part of the teasing, flirting
personality that's important for creating sexual attraction)

For example, imagine that the girl you're talking to asks for a
neck rub. Do so, but only under the condition that she returns
the favor. Give nothing for free.

In this same scenario, consider the possibility that she won't
massage your neck. What do you do? The answer is simple...don't
give her what she asked for.

By giving in, you're actually minimizing your value, but by
standing your ground, you're actually increasing it.

You don't have to be a jerk. Instead keep teasing her, saying
how good you are, how she's missing out. And the ONLY way to
get what she wants it to meet your demands

Holding strong to your principles is what separates you from
other men.

In the animal kingdom, a male of high value is known as the
alpha male, in that he calls all the shots. He eats first, mates
first, and dictates the actions of the beta males.

So whenever you're meeting a woman for the first time, keep in
mind the importance of social value. Keep asking yourself if
your actions are INCREASING or DECREASING your status.

You'll find that the best measure of this is if she's seems
interested or not. Keep doing what's working and ditch the stuff
that's not. 

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