0 How to Date a Woman

Credit to Ron and David:

Question from a newsletter reader:

One thing you seem to make clear from the
newsletters is to pursue multiple women
simultaneously. Well, as great and fantastic
as this sounds, it does have a drawback:
being a student makes for tight funds, and
dating gets quite expensive. Any suggestions?


Thanks in advance,
Dan

Answer:

Every man needs to get this through his head:
dating does not need to be expensive!

Spending lots of cash isn't necessary.
Creating a memorable experience for her and
taking charge of managing the date are more
important than spending money.

For instance:

It would be a fine, memorable and _free_ date
if you took her to a free museum and then on
a walk around a lake.

Neither of these cost anything. And it's
probably a more creative, personal date than
any other man would take her on.

If you know her better, you can rent movies
and make her dinner at your home.

Another possibility is to visit a nearby town
and window-shop down Main Street.

These are all cheap options.

The important part is that you are creating
experiences for her, and taking
responsibility for the date rather than
expecting that you can be boring and
uninspired, as long as you spend money on her
in the process.

Fox example, Murray was quite knowledgeable
about plants, majoring in horticulture in
college. He had researched forest ecology and
could identify nearly every tree, shrub, and
plant in the botanical gardens nearby.

He decided to take Beth on a visit to the
gardens. In an earlier conversation she had
mentioned her love of exotic birds, plants,
and trees. Murray saw the botanical gardens
as a perfect place to walk and bond.

From there he planned to take her to a lunch
spot, and then to a chocolate store, then,
hopefully, back to his house to listen to
music and, um, so on.

The whole date, he figured, would cost around
$15.00. It would give them an opportunity to
be together in a romantic spot and it would
definitely be memorable.

Howard is another dating master. He always
has a steady stream of women to date. He
meets them everywhere he goes.

Over the years, Howard has developed a long
list of dating laws that he strictly follows.
One is the $20.00 rule.

Howard never spends more than $20.00 on a
date. He simply decides ahead of time the
maximum he will spend on a date, and never
spends more. This rule has served him well,
and never leaves him broke or resentful.

We recommend you do take Howard's lead and do
the same thing. Set aside a fixed amount and
design a date that won't go over it.

If a date begins going badly, don't fall into
the trap of spending more money in an attempt
to fix it. That's desperation, not
confidence, and it doesn't work.

Spending more money won't help things. You
will probably leave feeling even worse, and
be no closer to your goal.

Even though paying for the date is
recommended, don't foolishly believe that
paying for dates negates the importance of
creating and maintaining the romantic mood on
a date.

Get this through your head right now: Money
is never a substitute for the other work
required.

If you take a woman to a very expensive
restaurant, she may be impressed, but if you
fail to create any romance, she will only
view you as sucker who she can manipulate
into buying things for her.

Get creative, and you can -- and should --
date cheaply and successfully.

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