0 "3 Steps To Get ANY Woman Into Your Bed"

There are numerous techniques at your disposal to get a
woman to go to bed with you.

Most women will tell you, however, that this is not true.
Obviously they don't want us to have the keys to the lock
that opens up their coveted wares :)

To seduce a woman you will first need to understand her point
of view and then proceed accordingly, not only to obtain your
own objectives, but for your mutual satisfaction and
fulfillment.

Because women want to be seduced and they want to have sex as
much as men, they just want it on their own terms.

The most important sexual organ you possess as a man is
your MIND. You must use your mental powers to arouse a woman
and to handle her objections and fears to get her into bed.

In many ways, you're going to have to talk your way into bed.

Before discussing her fears, however, I want to warn you about
your own. You cannot have a negative internal dialogue with
yourself and all sorts of doubts and negative thoughts racing
through your brain when you're seducing a woman or you will
surely sabotage yourself.

So don't allow yourself to dwell upon your fear of rejection,
your inadequacies, or any doubts you have about yourself.

You must stay positive and expect the best to occur every
time you are with a woman. Believe in yourself, relax, and
have fun. Women will be less likely to resist any move you
make if you are natural and carefree.

Like a beautiful young woman once told me, "The fewer a
guy's worries are, usually the more attractive he is."

So again, to seduce a woman you will have to influence her
mind.

You will have to persuade her to have sex with you because
the decision to have sex or not is a woman's prerogative.

Once you understand the criteria upon which she bases her
decision, you will be able to influence her in a way that will
get you the results you desire.

Much of the criteria upon which a woman bases her decision
on whether or not she is going to give it up revolves around
her basic FEARS.

A woman must first be free of any anxiety or fears before she
will invite you to ravage her. You need to clear away the
obstacles to the bedroom. Understand a woman's fears and you
can leverage a woman's point of view to your advantage.

A woman has three main fears that you need to handle to clear
the path to pleasure, ease, and her enjoyment of sex.

First, she fears that she is not as beautiful as she needs to
be, or could be, or should be.

Women are always worried about their weight, the size of their
breasts, their wardrobe, and their overall attractiveness.

To eliminate these fears of inadequacy, tell her how beautiful
she is. Tell her what you think of her skin, her neck,her legs,
and especially her eyes. But don't mention her breasts
unless they're perfect and not until you have already caressed
them.

Complement her about her clothes, her eye makeup, her jewelry,
and never, NEVER critize her or belittle her in any way when
you're making your move toward the bedroom.

Her second biggest fear is her fear of abandonment.

She needs to feel that after you make love to her that you are
still going to be with her in the future. Reassure her that
you are now a part of her life. In your pre-bedroom
conversation, tell her how much you look forward to spending
time with her in the future, and explain why you can see the
two of you together for a long time, and talk about exciting
things you will do together over the weeks and months ahead.

The third big fear to handle before getting a woman into bed
is her fear of unwanted pregnancy or contracting the AIDS virus.

You deal with this fear by broaching the subject of condoms
before you get all hot with passion. Most women now days will not
have sex with you unless you're wearing a condom.

As a Chinese girlfriend of mine was fond of saying, "No cover
wang, no get bang!"

Your job is to reassure her ahead of time that you use condoms
and that you have a supply of them on hand.

Look for ways to talk about the subject of condoms in a
non-threatening way. Say something sometime early on
like, "I think it's really important that people use condoms
when making love."

Try to word it in a way that uses third party names and
references; don't say 'you' like to use condoms don't you.

I've prepared a brief but sufficient list of the top 10 things
you need to do in order to smoothly "reel" her into your
"lair" :)

... And they are:

1. Be sincere.

Compliment her on something you truly admire. Hollow compliments
can often be sensed. A compliment that she knows you mean will
have much more impact. This doesn't mean you can throw out a
compliment and then get naked, but it is a good first step.

The compliment should NOT be 'you have great knockers.' Go for the
eyes, hair, intelligence, sense of humor, something along those
lines. On the other hand, too many compliments can come off
sounding insincere. One or two sincere compliments are best.

2.Listen to her.

She will give you clues about what she likes. At some later time,
you can show that you remember what she has said and it makes a
difference to you. This will earn you big points.

3.Be real.

Don't exaggerate to make yourself sound better. Don't tell her
lies just because you think it will help. These things have a
way of turning around and biting you.

4.Don't offer advice unless asked.

It could come off sounding like you are telling her what to do.
Just listen and be supportive.

5.Do not talk about sex unless she brings it up. This one is
pretty self explanatory.

6.Don't act desperate.

Just let things flow naturally. Desperation is an unappealing
quality in either sex. Playing a little hard to get can actually
be appealing.

7.Avoid talking about yourself too much.

Let her talk and if she wants to know, she will ask. An ongoing
conversation about how big your muscles are or how fast your car
is will not score many points. Bragging about how well endowed
you are is a big no-no too. On the other hand, silence doesn't
work either. Look around and find something to talk about.
Preferably about her.

8.Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are
with her.

Talking about other women or your ex are both no-no's too. If
you are out with her, let her know you like being with her by
respecting her feelings and keeping your eyes and mind on her.

9.Treat her with respect.

Don't call her chick, broad, dude or any other name unless you
have been together for a while and you come up with pet names
for each other. Respect is crucial and a good woman will not
be interested in sex with you until she knows you respect her.

If a one night stand is what you have in mind, then don't lead
her into believing you want a relationship with her. Playing
with her feelings is cruel and something no one should do to
anyone.

10.Don't make her feel like because you have spent money on
her, she should sleep with you. Making her feel this way will
generally have the opposite affect.

All you have bought is her time and the opportunity to prove
to her that you are worth a second look. The rest is up to you.

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