0 Calibration - A part of Dating Game!

"How do I know when a woman is attracted to me?"

This is a question EVERY guy has asked himself at some point when
meeting a woman for first time.

Now, there has been a lot written about "signs of attraction" and
studying the body language of women. Specifically there are a
number of ways you can tell if a woman is "into" you OR if she's
not!

Today we're going to focus on a great technique for figuring out
when a girl has interest in you. And what you can do when you
suddenly realize that you're not!

As a side note, a lot of the techniques you use to make a woman
interested involve the subtle art of flirting. If you don't know
how to do this, here's a site that can help:

During an interaction with a woman, you'll receive a TON of
feedback about what you're saying. If your techniques are
working, you'll see a positive reaction from her. This can
include actions like laughter, heavy touching, and teasing
comments.

On the other hand, if she looks annoyed or like she's not
enjoying herself, then you know she is NOT buying what you're
selling.

To get the MOST results from each conversation (and learn from
your mistakes), it's important to use a technique that's known
as "Calibration."

With calibration, you carefully monitor her reactions to the
conversation topics. Calibration is gauging a woman's reaction
to you and your actions. It's useful because when see you're
NOT creating attraction, you can quickly change topics and
recover from a "dying" conversation.

How do you use calibration? Well..I always use this technique
to decide WHERE I should take a discussion as I'm talking to
a girl. Specifically, there are THREE types of reactions you'll
get in a conversation. And EACH has a different action you
need to take when you encounter them.

The first is a positive reaction. If your audience seems
genuinely interested in what you're saying, then everything is
going well. This means you should continue what you're doing.

If a woman is laughing, touching you and flirting back, then you
she's probably interested in you!

The second possibility is a mixed reaction, where you won't be
sure if this girl is in synch with you. Sometimes she's laughing
and having fun. Other times, she seems distant and cold.

When this happens, you should continue with what you're doing.
Keep flirting and working on creating sexual chemistry.

At the same time, be extremely cautious and prepare to switch
tactics quickly if what you're saying is not impressing this
girl.

Finally, you may encounter a very bad reaction from a woman
you've just met. Perhaps it's something you said, or maybe you're
dealing with somebody who is really sensitive.

When this happens it's important to immediately stop what you're
doing and move to a different tactic.

For instance, if she reacts negatively to teasing, you can
redirect the conversation around a fun thing that happened to you
during the work.

But with that being said, there are times when you'll encounter a
girl who is simply a negative person. With calibration, you can
quickly filter out an overly-sensitive woman from someone who
just doesn't like ONE thing you've said.

When it comes to a negative woman, the best option is usually to
give up and walk away from the situation.

Calibration is about knowing when to take a step forward or a
step backwards.

When you know she's attracted to you and establishing physical
contact, then you don't have to worry as much about building
attraction through flirting. Instead you can isolate her and
escalate the interaction.

On the other hand, calibration also helps you know when you're
dealing with a girl who is uncomfortable. With this technique,
you can quickly identify a "problem situation" and act
accordingly!

Bottom line. Be very observant. Women are very good at hiding
their reactions. While they may be acting polite and
participating in the conversation, they may not be demonstrating
any signs of TRUE attraction.

What you have to remember is that it's not their fault - it's
actually yours. Attraction can be built in almost any situation.

Remember that you might be doing something wrong in the process,
so it's up to YOU to turn these negative feelings into a
positive experience.

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