0 Some Realizations about HOW TO CREATE ATTRACTION - Ron C.

1. Opening can NEVER be rapport-seeking. For very hot women, it is always best to bring the TENSION in. Opening should MAKE HER FEEL SOMETHING. Your DOMINANT, CHALLENGING VIBE and perhaps, a UNIQUE INTERESTING OPENER will do it. The first impression should always be "he is interesting, not boring like others".


2. But too strong too soon makes you look weird or just scares her off. She will feel uneasy. It's not that she's is not used to being approached but you are not giving her the time to VIBE with you. VIBE with her state. At this moment, just some easy neutral questions like what you are doing here or a small story about yourself, just getting into that comfortable conversational mode.


3. When you are in sync, veer off to a more DANGEROUS, more EXCITING vibe.  But only asking her where she works, how her boss is, what her job entails, et cetera is not going to charge her up. That doesn't mean you have to insult her or you have to start celebrating her with your inexorable affection. You have to take it off to a new more interesting level. At this moment, the SEXUAL VIBE and the FUN VIBE comes in. Sexually suggestive comments, outright challenging flirtatious remarks or actions or a bit of hard time of busting her balls (in good humor, FUN, FUN, FUN). At this stage, she knows you desire her and you are interesting and playful.


4. But the actual fun comes here. Be a TEASE. When you don't give her what she expects or wants, you are starting to build up the tension. A bit of disqualifiers or negs (not insults or criticism), just that you might not be seeing her in that way, builds up tension.  If she hints at your taking her out on a date, tell her how she is like your sister and  it'd be gross. Look at her lustfully and then turn your back to her. Just PLAY with her. Push her away (resistance - tension) and pull her in (interest - comfort). You create a HOPE and then sprinkle in some PRECARIOUSNESS, DOUBT in it. She wants you but you are JUST out of reach. You create a NEED  but you NEVER SATISFY that. Stage 4 should start along with Stage 3, note in your mind.


The thing to remember is that it's not your amorality or compliments that attract her or that your cold attitude that attracts her. The thing that ATTRACTS her is that SHE CANNOT GET YOU. One moment you are HAVING FUN and passing SEXUAL UNDERTONES at her. Next moment, you are acting COLD and DISTANT as to create a doubt in her mind if you really were serious when you were being sexual with her. It's not the contrast that creates the magic but stronger the confusion, stronger the ATTRACTION.


Stage 2 makes sure that the woman can tell to herself "we started out pretty normal, but it JUST HAPPENED". And this COMFORT phase shows that you are REAL and not a FAKE player. The comfort and trust should always be there. Always BE REAL and NORMAL.


So, when you see someone you would like to game, just walk up to her and say a Hi. And then, go on to PLAY!


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What exactly is Sexual Tension created?


Sexual Tension is created by anything that gives off a spark (not neutral, boring, something challenging) and keeps the excitement and anxiety up. You should always be calm and nonreactive for effective sexual tension, SHE NEEDS TO REACT! Sexual Tension has to have the Sexual Undertone, the SEXUAL VIBE, the Electricity in there, without any advances that kills that UPHEAVAL INSIDE (where she can feel the electric spark between you, you are sexually pulling her). And then you just PLAY her on. Any move should not be verbalized but acted out and that also very smoothly. It's that not reaching any conclusion that creates that sexual tension.This attracts women BIG TIME.


From here, you can start to put in more connection, comfort and trust, only to get back to create a bit of sexual tension and then finally striking....