0 #18- Never Be Needy or Desperate

There's a lesson I learned from a movie called "The Tao of Steve".
And I feel that you could learn a lot about attracting women by
paying attention to the core philosophy of the main character, Dex.

In this film, Dex explains that success with women doesn't have to
be that hard. All you really have to do is follow three simple
steps:

1) Remove Your Desires
2) Be Excellent
3) Be Gone

Now I'll be the first to say this is an over simplified version
of what makes a man attractive. But the heart of this philosophy
is absolutely correct. In fact, many of the principles and
techniques I discuss in my newsletter is directly related to one
of Dex's core ideas. Especially #2 where it's important to be
an excellent, naturally attractive man:

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However for TODAY'S lesson, I want to take a close look at the
first one--Removing your desires.

Truth is, acting in a non-needy, aloof manner is probably one of
the best things you can do when you first meet a woman.

Unfortunately this is a hard thing to many guys to do. We've all
grown up with movies which emphasized that the best way to attract
a girl is to reveal our feelings and try to "win her over."

Unfortunately, this really doesn't work when you first start
talking to woman.

An aloof personality can actually be the thing that initially
attracts a girl. In a way, she wants to be with a guy who doesn't
"need" her.

A guy who acts too needy gives off a desperate vibe that's not
attractive. Removing your desires basically shows a woman that
you have a lot going on in your life. It shows that you're high
status enough to not really care about the opinion of someone you
just met.

The "players" of the world can seduce women for one simple
reason... they give off a vibe that any particular girl is easily
replaceable.

If it doesn't work out with one, then they could easily find
three or four more. In a way, these men exude a "take it or leave
it" attitude that's attractive to a lot of women.

When you first meet a girl, you want to act differently than
other guys. Your average male usually hits on a woman from the
moment he meets her.

Instead of acting like this, you want to be the man who doesn't
seem to care about "picking up a woman." This is one of the
quickest ways to appear different from the losers who usually
approach a girl.

Furthermore, it actually helps if you display an attitude of
active disinterest. You're talking to her, but at the same time,
you don't seem to really care if she's attracted to you. This
kind of aloof attitude can often cause confusion in a woman.

Remember that she's used to guys always hitting on her. By not
seeming to care, you'll give off a major lack of neediness.

Also, I think "removing your desires" is one of the best ways
to display a confident attitude. A woman wants a man who has
options; she doesn't want a guy who'll date a girl because she's
the only one who likes him.

A confident guy with options makes her feel special because he is
a "valuable prize" that's desired by other women. 

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