0 #17- Go Slowly

"Two steps forward, one step back."

This is a valuable lesson I learned over five years ago from a
dating expert named David Deangelo. What he means is simple...

When dealing with women, you want to keep progressing your
relationships. But every time you take it to the next level, you
want to pull back a little.

Why does this technique work?

Well, a woman typically doesn't like it when a guy moves things
too quickly. Her natural instinct is to flee from any
relationship that gets "hot and heavy" too quickly. This is
ESPECIALLY true when she thinks the guy is only interested in sex.

By following the "two steps forward, one step back" technique,
you'll progress the relationship, while giving her the space that
she needs. With women, it's actually better to move too slowly
than too fast. As long as you're initiating the next step, it's
NEVER too slow.

For instance, say you're playfully flirting on a date. At some
point you'll kiss her. And after doing this for a few seconds,
you'll want to stop and go back to flirting.

This is the exact OPPOSITE of what a lot of men do.

When kissing a girl, MOST guys will push the physical escalation.
In other words, they try to turn that kiss into a sexual encounter.
Unless she's looking for a one night stand, behavior like this
immediately puts her on the defensive. Instead of enjoying the
moment, she's wondering if you're only interested in getting
into her pants.

By kissing her and then pulling back, you're demonstrating a few
qualities of the naturally attractive man:

1) You are physically attracted to her

2) You have self-control and restraint

3) You show confidence by NOT acting like a sex-starved teenager

A man who goes slowly in a relationship shows that he understands
the needs of women. He knows that she wants to feel desired,
but she also needs her freedom. He's naturally attractive
because he's confident enough to progress the relationship at
a pace that's comfortable to a woman:

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Now it's important to show restraint in ALL aspects of your
relationships with women:

~~~> When approaching her
~~~> When getting her number
~~~> When talking to her on the phone
~~~> When dating her
~~~>  When kissing her
~~~>  When touching her
~~~> When having sex with her

Whenever you're dealing with women, remind yourself to take two
steps forward and one step back. Most women LOVE guys who act
this way. You'll be that rare man who teases her with interest,
but doesn't come across as needy or desperate. In essence,
you'll show your desire, but you'll also demonstrate your
restraint! 

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