0 #16- Do Nice Things...on YOUR Terms

What sets the "nice guys" apart (and inevitably, below) the rest
of mankind is their willingness to give affection upon request.
What they fail to realize is that when a woman has to earn her
man's affection, it makes him all the more appealing in her
eyes.

(That's why sending mixed signals is a great way to build
attraction)

Now here's where some people get confused... I'm not saying you
should disrespect women, but you do have to be selective when it
comes to giving affection. In fact, you can quickly build some
serious attraction when you demonstrate that classic traits of
of a chivalrous man.

Think about it. A woman grows up thinking about that "Knight in
Shining Armor" who will one day sweep her off her feet. At the
same time, she grows up thinking about dangerous rebel who is a
little bit dangerous, always ready to ravage her.

This can be confusing to many guys. One hand, a woman wants
the romantic guy who can take care of her. And on the other
hand, she wants the bad boy who has that dangerous edge.

Bottom line is you want to demonstrate BOTH qualities to women.
Show that you can be that dangerous guy who has a basic niceness
deep inside him. That's the essence of an alpha male:

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To show the kinder side of your personality, don't come out and
SAY nice things. Simply DO things that show that you are a
caring person. In a way you're acting like a man with chivalry
who doesn't TELL people he's a classy guy. Instead the nice
things you do are ONE of the many parts of your unique
personality.

Now here's the tricky part...

MOST guys default to nice behavior when they first meet a woman.
They offer to buy drinks, pay for dinner, and smother her with
endless flattery. This behavior tends to annoy girls. Most wonder
WHY you're acting this way. They try to figure out WHAT you want
in return.

Instead of starting with nice behavior, it's usually better to
present the challenging behavior that I discussed in past emails.
THEN through your actions, you show the nice, chivalrous side to
your personality.

For instance, here are some things you can try:

~~~> Open doors for her (including the car door)

~~~> Pull out chairs as she's sitting down

~~~> If she gets cold, offer your jacket

~~~> Send text messages telling her your thinking of her

~~~> Offer your arm as you're walking along with her

~~~> Walk between her and the street

~~~> Lead her through a crowded room

~~~> Give her compliments when she does (or says) something
extraordinary

The trick to doing all these is to have them become a NATURAL
part of your personality. In other words, you're not doing them
to get a reaction out of her. Instead they're done because you
that's WHO you are. A man who understands the importance of
showing a bit of class.

You're a guy who does NICE things...but on YOUR terms!

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