show a woman your serious side. After all, how can she possibly
trust someone who jokes around all the time?
Truth is, women are NOT attracted to guys who always act in a set,
predictable manner. As I've discussed in previous emails, they
want a little bit of that sexual tension. They're never quite
sure what you're thinking. Or what you're going to do next.
The moment your relationship becomes predictable is the moment
she starts to pursue other guys.
For safe measure, mix things up a bit. While you don't have to
act like a raving lunatic, it's still important to be a little
unpredictable and exciting.
As you know, many girls claim they want a "nice guy."
The truth is that they want someone trustworthy, but with a
dangerous edge. This type of guy is a bit of a jerk, and he's a
little bit cocky. He lives his life by his own rules, and doesn't
pay much attention to what others want.
To do this, try adopting the character trait of a guy I like to
call the "Dangerous Man". (But not in the sense where she feels
physically scared)
There's something really interesting about "The Dangerous Man."
He's HIGHLY attractive to woman. Primarily, this is to due to the
mixed signals he sends. When she's around a guy like this, a
woman never knows what to expect. This is something covered in
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At any given moment, he could bring her on a wild adventure that
she didn't see coming.
At his core, "The Dangerous Man" is self-centered. He lives the
life that he wants. This man doesn't allow others to dictate what
he does, and he never supplicates himself whenever a woman makes
a demand.
To be more dangerous, you have to embrace the idea that women
should pursue you, not the other way around.
Create the mindset that you're a prize, and then act accordingly.
Here are a few techniques for becoming more like "The Dangerous
Man":
1) Never fall for a woman's tests or emotionally react to any
stunt she pulls. A guy who lives his life on the edge doesn't
concern himself with these tests. He either ignores them or
"calls her out" on her bad behavior.
The dangerous guy has a ton of confidence about himself, so he's
not afraid of losing a particular girl. He knows that if she
moves on, then there will be another to replace her.
2) Adopt the attitude of "not caring." While you want to do the
things that'll attract a girl, you never want to get sucked into
the trap of trying too hard. Remember, a dangerous guy focuses on
himself, and he's not concerned if a girl likes him.
Instead, he enjoys life and doesn't get too wrapped up in any
particular woman.
3) Don't always be available. If she calls (or texts), don't
always immediately respond. Make her wonder what you're doing or
even who you're with.
4) Live an exciting life. Your life should have a few adventures
that most people only dream of. While you don't have to lead
safaris through Africa or start BASE Jumping, you should still
try new things that'll challenge your levels of comfort.
Facing your fears is actually a good thing. When you do something
outside "the norm," you'll be the guy who displays an interesting
and exciting lifestyle.
As you know, women like romance novels and soap operas, because
they provide a glimpse into a drama-filled world. By have a few
interesting or even "dangerous" hobbies, you'll display a
personality that makes women excited.
"The Dangerous Man" is alluring because he never makes a woman
feel completely comfortable. Whenever she's around, you want to
subtly demonstrate that you live an unpredictable lifestyle.
A girl should feel that her place is never 100% secure. You have
so much going on in your life, you could move on at moment's
notice.
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