0 #14- The Fun Guy That Women Love

You've probably heard me say this before...Women make an
emotional connection between a guy's attitude and what he'll be
like in the bedroom. And this is ESPECIALLY true when it comes to
younger women (18-24).

So if you're a guy who has fun in every interaction, you'll have
MUCH more success than the guy who speaks to women in a boring,
logical level. By acting like the "fun guy" you'll make her
realize that you could possibly be fun "in many other ways."

In other words, an exciting personality directly taps into the
pleasure side of a woman's brain, and yes...this is a GOOD thing!
Case in point.

Go to ANY nearby bar/club and study the guy who appears to have
the most success with women. I GUARANTEE he'll be at the center
of a group, and look like he's having the time of his life. He's
NOT boring them with a boring predictable conversation. Instead
he's acting like the "party animal" who is naturally attractive.

It might not make sense to YOU, but as we all know, women are
drawn to emotional experiences, not logical ones.

One of the major problems I see in conversations between genders
is what each sex discusses. The MAJOR mistake guys make is to
converse with women in a logical manner.

They think a women prefer *safe* topics, so they steer conversation
towards things like where she's from, what she does, and how she
spends her free time.

While these are great topics for rapport and getting to know a
woman better, they do NOTHING to build attraction when you first
meet a girl.

As we've discussed, a woman is an emotional creature. When she
meets a guy, she enjoys that tingly feeling of TENSION, which is
at the heart of a flirty, teasing conversation.

The guy who can engage the emotional side of her brain is someone
she'll be attracted to, and one of the best ways to trigger this
response is to display a fun personality. Your goal is to avoid
ALL boring conversations. Instead do things that'll trigger an
emotional response, not a logical one.

Seriously... If you ask her boring, predictable questions, you
will get a boring, predictable response. Her eyes will glaze
over and she'll look for an excuse to get away from your dull
ass!

Instead of appealing to her on a logical level, focus on being
the man who can bring a woman on an emotional roller coaster.
One minute, she's laughing and having fun, and the next, she's
"turned on" and wondering if you're into her.

That's the essence of being a fun guy!

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Now if you're not sure how to get started, then I recommend you
display the *fun* side of your personality through the following
ways:

===> Through Your Hobbies

I cannot stress this enough - have passions other than women! This
not only makes you more interesting, but it also provides for
some great stories. Women are attracted to guys who live life.
So get out there and do something!

===> Through Your Humor 

You don't have to be a stand-up comic to be funny. Learn the
structure of teasing and humor. Develop a personality where
you can poke funs at the people/events around you WITHOUT being
negative or insulting.

===> Through Your Leadership 

If you're confident in your self worth, you'll have no problem
speaking up around others. Don't be afraid to give your two cents
in a conversation! Meekness is not attractive quality. So don't
think that the "strong, silent type" routine will help you get
any action.

===> Through Your Stories 

What's the craziest thing you've ever done? What interesting
things happened to you today? Why did your friends give you
that particular nickname? Think about your life and what others
might find entertaining about it.

===> Through Your Attitude 

This kind of goes along with the first point about having
hobbies. Don't be the guy who goes to work, comes home, and
repeats it all over again. Have other things going for you as
well. Have some dreams. Be passionate about life. Do stuff
that helps you grow as a person.

===> Through Your Connections 

Do you know (or have you met) any celebrities? Are you friends
with local people that have high social status Even better, do
you and the girl have any mutual friends?

In conclusion, I think that the *fun* personality is something
that CAN be learned. In certain situations we're ALL capable of
being the life of the party. The trick is to able to bring this
out whenever you're talking to women.

Now all you have to do is put a smile on your face and "fake it
till you make it." Who knows. You might actually accidentally
fun some fun out there!

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