0 #13- Be in Control of Your Relationships

Normally I don't watch a lot of television. But one day last
week, I found myself at home, not in the mood to socialize. So
I decided to flip through the channels and see what's on.

After a bit of searching, I came across a reality show called
"Tool Academy". The premise is simple...Twelve girlfriends trick
their asshole boyfriends to go on this show. And the guys have to
compete with one another, all the while trying to prove they can
overcome their "Tool" behavior and become an awesome boyfriend.

(If you've never heard the expression, the best way to describe
a "Tool" is someone who is a fake person. Someone who does
things to impress people. Instead he ends up looking like an
idiot)

Now there were a TWO things I learned from this show...

#1- There are a LOT of stupid, clueless guys in the world.

#2- Sometimes you can learn a lesson from EVEN the dumbest of men.

What did I learn? Well as I watched this show, I realized that
ALL of these "Tools" had one common trait. And this part of their
character was SO strong that it kept these clueless women STILL
wanting to fix a relationship. EVEN though they were dating some
of the WORST human beings EVER to walk the face of the earth.

(Seriously you have to watch this show to SEE how ridiculous these
dudes are.)

So what's their common trait?

All the "Tools" were in complete control of their relationship with
their girlfriends.

Yes, these guys are idiots. And yes they act like abusive jerks.
BUT...

They their controlling behavior was SO strong that they had their
women CONVINCED that they *could* be the one.

Talk about insane.

The lesson you can learn is simple. Whenever you're dealing with
women, it's important to show a bit of controlling behavior.

No, I don't mean you dictate every single detail of a woman's
life. Guys who turn out to be control freaks end up appearing
insecure, needy, and inevitably, alone. Instead, become a guru at
figuring out her games, and play to win. This is part of being the
HIGH status men that women want:

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Here's how to show a dominant attitude:

It's no secret that women are used to being in control of the
mating ritual. They say "jump," and we say "how high?" As soon
as you finish reading this email, I want you to abandon this
behavior, because you don't want to be the guy who bends to their
every whim.

Instead, do the exact opposite.

EVERY time you're dealing with women, you want to be the dominant
personality. For instance, you should do the following:

*** Plan out your actives (ie: dates)
*** Initiate phone calls
*** Be the first to end dates/phone conversations
*** Be a busy guy who makes time for women, ONLY when you can
*** Lead conversations towards the things you want to discuss

Again, I'm not saying you should EVER act like one of the "Tools"
on this show. Instead I'm saying that you adopt the attitude
that you're a leader and you're not afraid to take charge of a
relationship.

So ALWAYS pay attention to her needs, but at the same time BE the
guy who actively move the relationship to the next level.

Now this may go against everything you've been taught about being
a gentleman, but trust me...it works.

As we've discussed, women WANT a guy who takes control. To be
honest, MOST are NOT attracted to the weak, passive guys who wait
for things to happen. They want a guy who is confident enough to
figure out what a girl wants and move the relationship towards
it.

So as you're meeting women, I urge you to look for subtle ways
where you can take control of the interaction. Be the guy who
plans things. Be the guy who calls first. And be the guy who
demonstrates a quality life. One where she has to *earn* the
right to be part of.

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