0 #12- Be a Challenge to Women

In case you've ever wondered why a soap opera like General
Hospital has been on the air for decades, the answer is quite
simple...women LOVE drama.

There is something about this form of entertainment that connects
to the emotional roller-coaster mentality that women thrive on.
And the show that provides the most ups-and-downs generally has
the LARGEST number of viewers.

When applied to "natural attraction", nothing is more dramatic
than a man who knows how to challenge women.

That's not to say that your aim is to fill their lives with bad
emotions, but you should try to bring out unpredictable emotions
within them.

As I've stated repeatedly, women are emotional creatures. It is for
this reason that we men must use teasing to create and enhance
sexual tension. This is part of being the HIGH status men that
women want:

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A challenging man does not feed into a woman's need to argue.

He makes the plans that HE wants to make. If she wants to join
him, then he lets her. But at the same time, the challenging man
doesn't cave in to her demands or falls for any tests she throws
his way.

In short, he is the master of bringing women through a broad
range of emotions, and as a result, he gives them what they crave
...drama.

Besides being a challenge yourself, it's also valuable to know
how to challenge women. Rather than trying to sell a woman on
how great you are, qualify her by testing and challenging her.

Make her commit to the qualities she's mentioned having. Tell
her what you want in a woman, and see to it that she fits your
standards.

(That's why it's EXTREMELY important to know EXACTLY what you
want in a woman!)

All of this may seem unrealistic (and maybe even a bit cruel) in
your opinion, but that's only because the concept is probably new
to you.

The ONLY way this works is to believe that you are a person with
high standards, and you DESERVE quality women. Remember people
only treat you with as much respect as you command.

So how do you know when you've successfully qualified a girl?

The first step (as we've already mentioned) is to select her
based upon your pre-determined criteria.

Next, she MUST show a genuine interest in your company in order
to make YOU interested. If she's asking you questions, laughing
at your jokes, or showing other signs of attraction, then she
makes the cut.

In addition to knowing what you do want in a woman, it's also
incredibly important to know what you DON'T want.

In some cases, knowing what you dislike in a mate can be more
valuable than what attracts you, as it "weeds out the bad
apples," so to speak. It's just human nature to focus on the
negative, so why bring someone into your life with so many cons
to her character?

A side benefit of this list is it makes it easier for you to
connect to that special girl who comes along. You build trust by
demonstrating that you're not out looking to bang every girl you
meet. This separates you from other men, because you have
standards about you want in your life.

In other words, a woman has to work HARD for your attention.

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