Thursday, October 15, 2009

0 My Game - Sexual Confidence - Sexual Tension

When you are starting...
  1. Sexual Confidence. Know your worth. Believe you are a prize and act like that. Be in Charge. Strong Reality as a MAN. High sense of Self-worth.
  2. Give off Mixed Signals....Make her Confused. Force her to think about you. Love | Attraction equals to how much you haunt her mind. Women love TENSION, DRAMA, CONFLICT. Pleasure-pain. Push her away, pull her in. Cat-string theory. Sexual TENSION means you are a challenge to them, you are hard to get! 
Note: You can challenge them in two ways, viz., stay aloof and disinterested, or go over to her and challenge her. Pull should be a hint at your interest for her, like a flirtatious compliment, a look into the eyes, suggestive smile, suggestive touch, attention, making her feel SPECIAL; Never that you are all over her and cannot live without her. When you push her away like disinterested body language, not receiving her calls, not replying her mails, not responding to her seeking rapport, intentionally/unintentionally poke fun at her, don't make a move, give her a hard time, instill doubt into her mind about your interest, that you might not be impressed with them. Since you are being very vague, you are not letting them be sure and thus, making them confused, striking their imagination. Push, a hint of Pull. Pain, a hint of Pleasure.


Over the time....you have to move in!

But how?

The mixed signals, the tension, frustration, the anticipation, the confusion is only to create that necessary attraction. But you have get deep into her soul. Have an emotional connection, a bond with her, where she trusts/respects/loves you. Storytelling, showing your real persona, showing your 'caring guy' side, cold reading...but still having that sexual confidence and being in charge, strength as a man...pulls her in. At this moment, a bit of suspense here and there, a hint of conflict, a break in the rapport, some distance (at this time, the girl has already started to surrender, so a bit of doubt, keeping her on the edge WORKS GREAT)...can create an emotional stir. This can be created by having a LIFE on your own. Non-neediness, a bit of aloof attitude and doubt can make her more reactive to the relationship. Pleasure, a hint of Pain. Pull, a hint of Push.

Remember, she wants a traveler to nurture, to direct her, to drive her! Be the man, the source of strength for her.
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