0 #10- Be Attracted to Yourself

A lot of guys worry too much about their own physical
appearance. While it's important to look your best, your looks
aren't the ONLY thing that helps you with women.

The truth is your level of "physical attraction" to the opposite
sex is the ultimate self-fulfilling prophecy. If you think
you're an ugly guy, then that's all you'll project--- UGLINESS.

To have success with women, you must create the mindset that
you're best looking guy around, even if *know* you're not blessed
with a male model's appearance.

So how do you do this? The answer is to good hard look at
yourself, and figure out what positive qualities you can offer to
ANY woman you date.

Now this isn't one of those hokey "love yourself" exercises.
Instead it's an honest evaluation of the traits that you have to
offer the girls you meet.

To get started, take a close look in the mirror, and instead of
focusing on what you don't like about yourself, pick out the
qualities you do find appealing.

And if you can't find anything attractive, then you're going to
have a hard time getting women for ONE simple reason...

Women won't be attracted to you unless YOU like yourself.

Don't think you're the only guy who lacks self confidence in
the looks department, because a lot of guys share the same
problem.

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If you find that you're unable to come up with a number of
POSITIVE qualities, then you're probably seeing the effects of
what's commonly known as "Self-Limiting Beliefs."

Self Limiting Beliefs are personal statements you often say to
yourself, which prevent you from being attracted to yourself.
And this prevents from having GREAT success with women.

For instance, you might hear yourself saying things like:

"I can never get her."

"I'm too [Insert Physical Quality] for her to be interested."

"It's too late to change my life."

"I have NO luck with women."

"I need to be rich or good looking to attract hot women."

"All the women in this bar are a bunch of bitches."

"Fate will allow it to happen."

"I'm afraid of looking stupid if I try something new."

Sound familiar? If so, then you need to re-channel your mental
energy into avoiding these statements at all costs. Whenever
you find yourself saying something like this, substitute it with
an affirmation where you say the exact OPPOSITE.

So "I can never get her" would be substituted with "I wonder if
SHE is going to match MY expectations. Let me go over and find
out..."

Trust me...Words are much more than sounds; they're mirrors of
ourselves that we reflect back into the world. If you want to be
attracted to yourself, then it's time to change the reflection,
because what you're thinking will ultimately influence those
around you.

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