0 Want to know the TRUTH about why you are unsuccessful with women?

Want to know the TRUTH about why you are unsuccessful with
women?

It might masquerade as shyness, nerves, neediness, lack of style, bad
breath, or body odor.  But that's not the root cause Schttrj,
in fact I'd refer to these all as symptoms of a deeper, MUCH more
pressing issue.

The answer is:

Insecurity

I talk about this a lot in my ebook, "How To Get A Girlfriend",
but for now let's correctly define security. Then, let's consider how
this relates to being attractive. Let's also try to keep this simple,
because this is a topic we cover at length in our products
and consultations which takes time to get handled.

Let me give you my definition of security:

"A willingness to accept myself as I am, strengths and
weaknesses and then the determination to work towards a
healthy ideal for myself."

Kinda simple, and it sounds (er, reads) like it's an easy fix.

Unfortunately man, that aint the case.

A man who is secure realizes his weaknesses, and then
addresses them. Some weaknesses (better known as challenges)
are tougher to handle than others. A patient, deliberate
effort may have to be the goal here, as the growth of lasting,
sustainable self-esteem takes TIME.

If a guy has bad breath, for example, is it because he just
ate a dish filled with garlic or does he suffer from
gingivitis?

If it's the garlic causing the problem, his problem is easily
remedied by a bit of time and some mouthwash. If he has
gingivitis or halitosis, the challenge becomes larger and
will take more time to surmount.

(Although, he should carry some Cool Mint Listerine
PocketPaks with him at all times)

A guy who is secure with himself likely never encounters a
challenge like bad breath, or if he does, he handles it
right away.

An insecure guy will be too lazy to take the action, or will
unconsciously reject the reality that he has bad breath. His
fragile self-esteem will not accept the information, thus he
continues to create bad impressions on other people due to
his own unwillingness.

(I suggest you re-read the above paragraph and see if that
little example might apply to various other parts of you life
Schttrj)

This mini-example can translate to virtually any challenge
which we encounter through our lives. Most guys live lives
that are so out of balance, that a woman might initially
like you, but when she eventually sees the chaos that
follows you around (whether it be bad breath, flailing
friendships, insecurity, lack of focus, endless hours
surfing the web, messy apartment, the list goes on...) she
will never really see you as a viable companion because she
knows, intuitively, and biologically, that you are not a
man in the truest sense.

You are not someone who can provide security...thusly you
are not attractive to her.

Security = Attractive

Here is where we separate the men from the boys. The boys
right now are thinking, "This is a load of BS. A bunch of
feel good jargon. This will never work for me." They are
right, it never will until they decide to face their lives
and live it like a man.

A man sees this and realizes that it is time, now, to step
up to the plate and take responsibility. He sees that he can
get what is rightfully his. That time is now.

Women are seeking a man who is secure with himself, and is
able to provide it to her consistently.

These men reflect it with everything they do - they always
seem to be in control, they are sensitive to the needs of
the moment, they rise to the occasion, they have a focused
purpose in their life, and are comfortable in their own
skin.

Their life naturally validates them internally, and thusly,
they feel complete.They are attractive, naturally.

So, when you give that guy the ten magically perfect things
to say to a woman, he only needs five, and even then he has
overdone it...

Let me be clear - I am not saying that you have to be rich
or to have fully realized all of your goals in order to be
successful with women.

What I am saying is that it is critical to be on the path
pursuing your goals. Men who live with passion and direction
are magnets for women because they are attractive.

Quality women are desperate for men whose lives are focused,
balanced, and filled with purpose.

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