0 Seal the Deal

Brad P. here with a quick tip that can help you seal the deal in many situations where normal guys fail. You know that point in the night where you've gotten the girl back to your place, you're gotten her into bed, maybe you've even gotten some of her clothes off, but you just can't overcome that last bit of resistance that she's putting up?

Women want sex as badly as men, but their instincts tell them they have more to lose when they sleep with someone. This is why women tend to resist more than we would like. That's just the way their brains are wired.

In the age of birth control and paternity suits, women don't actually have much to lose by having sex. One could even argue that men have more to lose these days. That fact doesn't really matter, because women's instincts have not yet been updated for the age of birth control and paternity suits.

So do a woman a favor and give her a great sexual experience. She'll respect you more if you are able to get through her pointless resistance. Here's a little trick I use to get through that last bit of resistance. I call it "The Web is Tightening."

Girl: questions/resistance/logical stuff

BP: That's SO hot. The more you struggle, the more the web tightens around you. You're like a little fly buzzing around in my web. There's no escape.

Girl: You're trying to seduce me; you think you can seduce anyone, etc.

BP: Yes, keep struggling. Try to fight it. The web is tightening with every word you speak. You're my helpless little victim....

(Repeat as necessary)

You can just keep going with this frame until she gives up. It works for a few reasons-

1. A lot of girls think the victim/seducer dynamic is hot. I realized this a few years back when this girl I know was telling me she thought Jason from Friday the 13th was hot. I had no idea what was going on with that, but it sort of makes sense if you really think about it. There's something very sexual just below the surface of any horror movie, and you can tap into that vibe.

2. You own the frame big time. You control the conversation. Everything she's saying plays right into your frame. The more she resists, the hotter the situation becomes until finally she just cannot take the sexual tension anymore and she finally submits. Being sexually submissive to a powerful man is a huge turn on for most women.

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