Friday, November 20, 2009

0 10 Best Dating Books...

During programs or when seeing clients, I am always asked
for good reading recommendations.

I totally understand the question.

If you're like me, when you get interested in something,
ANY *really good* read is worth the buck.

So, I wanted to give you MY top 10 list of GREAT books for
men.

Some of these deal with dating, seduction and "pick-up",
while others focus on fashion, sex, or spirituality.

I've pulled the best of the best here, and I have
personally read each of these 10.

They are all MUST reads for guys looking to help themselves
with women and dating... OK, on with the list:

10) The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Tim Ferriss.

It might seem odd that I include this on the list here, but
allow me to explain.

A big principle I teach is autonomy. This book is about
gaining ownership over your time and money so that you
aren't pray to a boss, or someone leaching your time away
from what you truly want out of life.

He outlines what to do step-by-step.

If you really want a full life (which is ATTRACTIVE to
women by the way…), then this book is an indispensable
guide.

9) Dressing the Man: Mastering the Art of Permanent Fashion
by Alan Flusser.

This is THE best book on timeless fashion for men. The
pictures and illustrations are unforgettable.

It has everything from how to tie a bowtie, to exactly what
to wear with what...

I guarantee that every question you have about fashion will
be answered with this vital fashion guide for men.

8) Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo.

A simple and fun read about meeting and dating women.

A bit simplistic and dated, but a great overview on the
basics, and few useful tidbits about getting started in
meeting women.

7) The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed
by, who else, Mystery.

Good to see that some literature from this community has
gone main stream (I guess).

I'd caution you about this book in one way – he's
been picking up women for over 10 years. His brain runs on
overdrive when it comes to dating and sex, so some/most of
this may not be useful to you at all.

It's a definite read, but don't take it too seriously.
Feel free to bring along a few grains of salt for the ride.

6) Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.

This book is terrible if you're looking for ACTION items,
but it is a wonderful non-fiction read and can greatly
assist you in seeing what is possible.

Also, some of the attitudes described of the historical
figures are amazing.

These attitudes are the big "takeaway" from this book - all
attitudes that you can learn Schttrj.

This book can help you develop a larger view of what can
actually happen between men and women, rather than what
'has always happened' for you…

5) The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss.

It's a fun read. It's a wild read. And it correctly
illustrates the pitfalls to picking-up women if you
aren't careful and slip out of balance in your life.

I think Neil's writing is a bit overdramatic and
unpolished. (And hey, I am in it as "Playboy"...)

But, overall, it's VERY entertaining…and after you read
"The Game", you'll have to wash your brain with:

4) How To Get A Girlfriend by Stephen Nash.

Of course I had to put my own book in here. If you are
interested in REAL and PRACTICAL advice about dating, women
and relationships…then you must get it now.

It should be your second read, after "The Game"

3) Endurance: Shackleton's Incredible Voyage by Alfred
Lansing.

As a guy, we all need role models.

When I became interested in improving my dating and
relationship life, I also got interested in learning more
about what it means to be a man.

This book was recommended to me as it shows exactly what it
means to be a man on a mission, to be a guy who truly knows
and owns his purpose and mission in life.

These things are critical to get handled if you want to be
more attractive to women & Shackleton demonstrates it at a
VERY high level.

2) The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature Matt Ridley.

Ever read "Genome"? Well, if you have, then you know
how excellent Matt Ridley's work is.

His research into the biological differences between men
and women will astound you.

He truly clarifies the nature of attraction, and why
certain things are more interesting to women that others
– and WHY this is so baffling to men.

Also, his insight into the sexual mating patterns of humans
will blow you away.

This is a MUST read for sure as it is the premier guide to
"getting" female psychology.

1) The Way Of The Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Woman, Work, and Sexual Desire by David Deida.

This is the BEST book you can read about becoming a man,
and being attractive to women – BAR NONE.

I have read it three times, and will read it again. When I
travel with my girlfriend, I always pack this book.

I even purchased it for my dad on his 64th birthday.

The chapters are short and sweet, and the language is
direct, challenging and immensely hopeful.

If you haven't read this book yet, purchase it today and
put down everything else you are reading. I am dead serious
– it is that important.

Enjoy the reading list!


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