Thursday, August 6, 2009

0 NEVER Listen To A Woman

Credit to Simon Heong:

Ask any woman what they're actually looking for in their

ideal man, and most of them will say they want a nice
sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and basically act
like one of their girlfriends.

They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive
guy to talk to about their problems.

Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that
girls talk to about their problems. But the relationship
usually doesn't get any farther than being just friends.

All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or
that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date.

The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women
aren't lying when they say they want these things...when
they think logical they do, because it makes sense.

But remember, women don't choose logically what they are
attracted to.

So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a
guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when
they feel down.

But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will
take control and act like a man should.

So what qualities do women want in men?

What they've always wanted and always will want. Women
want real men, men that are in control and don't ask
for permission to do anything. They don't want to be
in charge, they want someone to be in charge of them.

I know this sounds harsh, but it's true.

Here are some examples, have ever noticed that...

When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how
beautiful she is she shies away from you?

This probably happens every time you try and start a
conversation. But when you...

Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in
the conversation and take you more seriously.

Also, have you noticed...

When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her
to an expensive dinner, she usually thanks you the evening
and goes out with another guy?

But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you
are equals she feels attracted to you, because you're not
catering to her every need.

Have you noticed when....

You call a girl often after a date and she seems
distant and funny.

But, when you don't call her and you act like you're
busy and could live with her or without her, she won't
stop calling you.

The truth is women don't want to be catered to, spoiled
or treated like princesses. This is what women want
from a man...

First of all, women want you to be confident in your self.
So, if you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that
is a turn off.

Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around.
They don't want to talk about what you are going to do,
they just want you to lead the way and do it.

They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional.

Using 'disconnections' works most NATURALLY to make it
challenging, fun, yet exciting enough to 'entice' women
(esp those who get hit on a lot) to stick longer and
see what you've got in store for them as you're
talking.

So if you are the kind of guy that has a hard time
keeping his emotions to himself, you are going to
have to work on it.

Women want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring
and dull. Just because you are into collecting
stamps or collecting model planes, it does NOT mean
you have to bore the poor girl to death about your hobby.

Women want you to make them laugh. So as you can see,
entertaining and fun = VERY IMPORTANT.

(Knowing exactly how to make women laugh and fall for
you takes a certain 'skill', it's not so much being
a doofus or a joker when you're with her but more on how
you INTEGRATE both humor AND attraction together.)

They don't want to know everything about you all at
once, they want to wonder. So, no matter how tempting
it may be you don't have to tell them you whole life
story.

Women want to keep guessing.

They hate it... guessing, not knowing what you're up to...

But secretly LOVE at at the same time... that's what makes
this game so 'exciting'... so appealing for them... not
knowing what's going to happen next.

They want you to have more to talk about than "the game
last night", they want you to be interesting.

They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to
have a life goal or something you are trying to achieve.

In other words, they want to know what you want from
life.

There's practically sooo many things you can do
right now to att.ract women and one of the most important
ones is to LEARN TO FLIRT!

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