0 The Best Opener - Anytime, Anywhere!

Do you want to attract any cute girl you see, and make a
powerful, confident first impression?

After all, in women as in men, attraction happens right away, or
not at all.

First impressions matter most.

In our world-famous Art of Attraction workshop we emphasize that
the words used for an opener are not as important as the intent,
the energy, and the commitment you bring to it.

But you do need words.

We have one absolute fall-back every time 100% effective opener.
This is something that anyone can use, anytime, any skill level,
any environment.

You can use this opener and succeed with it if:

* You are just starting out and dealing with the daunting task of
approaching women for the first time (and wondering how in the
hell anyone ever does anything this scary). This will get you
started and get you positive responses immediately.

* You are able to start conversations comfortable with women, but
find that those conversations aren't as fun and flirtatious as
you'd like. Or, you have some 'techniques' you are using to
start conversations that are a little bit complicated and get
things off to an awkward start.

* You can keep conversations going to the end of time, but you
often find that the girl never fully commits to you. It's almost
as if she is letting you entertain her until the guy she really
connects with comes along. This establishes right from the start
that you are a confident, physical man, and rewards her for being
the woman who is deserving of that attention (for right now).

* You are a high-value guy and finding that you come on too
strong for some girls and try a little to hard without even
realizing it. This will get her smiling and comfortable so she
can relax and appreciate your interest.

* You are super-advanced and want to see just how basic you can
break it down. This can make the game ridiculously easy now that
you have internalized all the lessons of value and fun and the
potential for great intimacy and sexual fulfillment you have to
offer.

Seriously. Any one. Any time. Any where.

So what is the secret?

It's simple really.

Give her a Sincere Compliment.

The trick is to do it in a relaxed, fun, low-key way, and NOT to
make a big deal out of it.

Here are the exact words to use.

"I know this is kind of random, but I had to tell you that you
are just too cute."

Now here is what makes this work.

First, you walk up confident but not cocky. you am not fooling
around here, and you ar not saying this to get attention.

This isn't a joke or a put on and she's not on Punk'd.

You are doing this as a gift from you to her.

Then you just need to believe that she is lovely to look at - for
whatever reason.

By the way, you do NOT want to save this for the scorching
hotties -- any woman who catches your eye for any reason is
deserving of a compliment.

Next, remind yourself that YOU benefit when you have the chance
to make someone else smile. You will make her day better. That's
your only objective. Just put a smile on her face.

If you know in your heart that you have the ability to make
pretty girls smile at any time, that you really do believe that
everything she does is cute, then why would you ever be afraid to
talk to her?

Would you not then know that you do have a power to use for good?

Do you not understand how much people, and women in particular,
need, crave, and pine for real appreciation?

When you approach a woman and tell her there is something special
about her that you can't help but see, you create a world where
only the two of you exist, a world she gets to visit far too
rarely.

Now it is critical that the compliment itself be as subtle and as
nourishing as possible, and it has to be about HER, not about her
clothes, or her stuff.

We've tested this with telling a woman that she is gorgeous, or
lovely, or stunning, but we've never found anything that gets as
consistently positive and comfortable responses as the word
"cute."

There's some deep psychology and subtle social cue stuff at work
here.

If you tell a woman how beautiful she is, she takes that
compliment as an offering to her altar.

She may appreciate it, but all it says about you is that you are
a man who notices beautiful women.

What is most important to them is NOT to be beautiful, or
stunning, or hot, or spectacular, or any other lame come-on
they've already heard over and over.

What matters most to them, what they dream of every night, is
that someone cares for them. Someone will protect them. Nurture
them. Hold them close and enjoy them for who they are: a cute
girl.

All women want to be loved. But there's a deep level that most
men aren't aware of.

Women need someone to allow them to drop their shields and see
through to the little girl who loves puppies and ice cream and
Sunday mornings lazing in bed in fluffy pajamas.

When you tell her that you see how cute she is, this is what she
hears. Finally, someone notices the girl that was always there.

Go out today and do this direct, natural, warm approach, and see
what happens. See what responses you get. See how many smiles you
create.

Hell, see if you don't find yourself smiling a little knowing
that you have the ability, really and genuinely, to create a
little more joy in the world.

For FREE Dating articles and eBooks, subscribe here with your email address