0 BE THE PRIZE

From Scott Patterson:

I always found it interesting that women often describe certain
men as 'good catches'. A phrase like this makes you think that
they're waiting to snare us in a net or something.

So what is a catch? Well in my opinion, this is another word for
a high status male. He's someone who has his life together and
has a NUMBER of qualities that women desire.

Becoming a catch is easier said than done, as most of the change
must take place from within. You have to retrain your brain into
visualizing a new and improved you, and this takes practice.

BUT in order to demonstrate high status (and show you're a good
catch) then your MIND has be in sync with the body language,you're
hoping to demonstrate. ONLY then will have that *vibe* of a man
who KNOWS women find attractive.

Everyone has good qualities (both internally, as well as
externally), and you have to know yourself well enough to find
them.

To help guide you in the direction of a healthier self image, try
some of the following affirmations. This may seem silly to you at
first, but by reading and repeating the following statements to
yourself, you will form the mindset that you are a prize to
women.

These affirmations are literally 'food for thought,' and they
will help you display the qualities necessary to hook her on the
emotional level needed to 'Be a Better Prospect':

"If she doesn't like me, it's her loss. Even if I don't attract
her, I at least learned something from the interaction."

"Why wouldn't she want to sleep with me? I'm worthy of having
any woman."

"She needs my approval, not the other way around. It's my opinion
that counts."

"Any woman would be lucky to have me; it's just a matter of me
making the right choice of woman."

"I am a prize for any woman. They can see that through their
interactions with me."

"I know how to please women, and I will...if they deserve it."

"I can have any woman I want; it's only a matter of deciding who
that is."

Pay especially close attention to this last affirmation. One of
the KEY elements to the 'Better Prospect Principles' is to believe
AND act as if you are the prize.

As you know by now, guys make the mistake of treating women
like queens and catering to their every little need.

Instead of being at her beck and call, you should act like you're
the prize. SHE has to make an effort if she wants YOUR attention.

By subtly demonstrating that you're the catch and she has to work
for you, you'll literally have a woman doing everything she can
to make a good impression with you.

While this might seem a bit Machiavellian, this is exactly the
thing that women do when they meet a guy. They get them to buy
their drinks, give compliments, or establish physical contact.

You're just turning the tables on them!

A great routine you can use is "The Frame Stealer" technique I
mentioned over a week ago. When you're dealing with women, assume
the role of being the one that is pursued.

Have the mindset that all her actions are done in an attempt to
get you to notice her. In fact, she's trying to pick you up.

Don't always react when she does something for you. Don't return
TOO much. And don't be the guy who waits around for girls to
notice him.

Another way to use this technique is to accuse her of hitting on
you. Interpret ANYTHING she does as a way of her trying to 'get
into your pants'. Then tease her MERICLESSLY about too obvious.

To get started, sit down and think of all the ways that women
brush you off or try to establish dominance. Then use these SAME
lines on the women you meet.

For instance, you could say stuff like:

• "Buy me a drink."
• "Can we just be friends?"
• "You're just trying to use me for my body."
• "Hey, keep your hands to yourself."
• "I'm not that kind of guy."
  

Like always... if you say these qualities with a smile on your
face, you'll create that fun, flirting conversation that quickly
builds sexual attraction.

Have fun with 'Being a Catch'. It's all about having the mindset
that you're the shit and everyone knows it. All YOU have to do
is act accordingly!

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