0 Art of Seduction: Questions and Answers

Question: First of all, thanks for sharing your great tips about how

to pick up women - I really like reading them because they
help me to focus my attention on details I've never noticed
before, or haven't pay enough attention to, but without whom i
t would be much more difficult for me in pick-up matters.

I'm 'Recovering AFC' in need of your help (my inner game is
really bad). I'm a university student and since I have my
final exams coming soon often spend my time at the library or
one of the computer rooms during the week.

I peacock and it works... together with acting confidently
and since I'm 'handsome' (I've heard it a few times from
girls talking about me :-) ) I have almost all girls I see
as a potential 'target' gathering around me (they come and
sit down next ot me, or opposite me) - always 'accidentally'...

Ok, here is my question to you. Once I'm in such a situation
and received IOIs (touching her hair, scratching arms,
hands etc., tilting her hair and not always directing her
body towards me or keeping eye contact - especially when
she sits next to me) from my 'target' what do I do?

The library and the computer rooms are 'quiet areas' but
sometimes people talk quietly in there. Should I wait till
she leaves the room (what may take hours if she has some
work to do) and leave with her?

I also tried to leave first but she never follows me
(maybe because I didn't give her any signs that I wanted
to talk to her?) If so what 'signs' should I give her?

Or should I tell her that as we can't talk here but I have
something to ask or tell her, ask her to go to the hall
with me? I also noticed that she almost always leaves
the room for a while (after giving IOIs) but never takes
all their belongings with her which means she'll come back.

What does it mean? Does she want me to go with her? And
the last question. Once we left how do I start a
conversation? Do I use (in)direct opener, comment on
what she wears, or since she gave me non-verbal IOIs
I go stright to A2?

Oh, and there's the 3-second rule broken... Lots of
questions, but I really want to know what to do in that
situation and know that you can help me sort it out.

Answer: Dude, judging from your email, I'd say you only have ONE

problem.

You think too much.

I mean, wtf??!

A2?

Let me guess, magic bullets, right? lol. =p

Bro, first off, you've got to realize one thing, and that
is to...

STOP ANALYZING AND JUST GO FREAKIN TALK TO HER!

If you keep looking for IOIs, trust me, I can GURANTE.E
there will NEVER be the 'right' time for her to give you
the 'green light' to talk to her and you will FUMBLE when
you eventually gather the balls to talk to her.

You also mentioned that the IOIs you were getting:

Scratching arms, hands??

OMG, double wtf??!

If a woman is scratching her arms and hands, it means she's
having an ITCH, and I don't think it's for you buddy lol.

As for IOIs, there's been way too much misconception on
how it's supposed to be used as you're out interacting
with women.

Yes, Indicators of Interest (IOIs) shows whether a woman is
interested in you but that's just all there is to it!

Never ever use them as 'yes' or 'no' affirmations for you
to approach a woman!

Think about it, what's the point anyway?

If you like a girl, you go talk to her. It's pointless and
it makes no sense for you to WAIT for her to give you the
'green light', no?

Why do you even BOTHER?

First off, if you really like her and want to get to know
her, STOP it with all the thinking already and just say
something to her... ANYTHING!

As long as you OPEN YOUR MOUTH and talk to her, everything
will be just FINE.

Remember, it's not the opener that matters, it's always in
the SUBSEQUENT lines and things you say AFTER you've opened
her that makes the difference.

So, the next time you see her glancing your way... SMILE.

If she smiles back, walk up to her and ask "Hi, been
seeing you around you quite a bit, let me guess, Law?"

The point is for you to DO SOMETHING.

It doesn't have to be fancy, it doesn't have to be slick.

Screw the 'clever' lines, trust me, if you're
just starting out approaching women, your delivery won't
come out the way you want them to however 'slick' the line
you use, because it's just not YOU.

I've seen it happen like a THOUSAND times, and 8 out of
10, guy's who are beginners WILL fail.

I'm not being a pessimist here, I'm just being REALISTIC.

Or, if you're feeling shy to go talk to her just yet,
your smile alone will be just as good.

Just as long as you keep smilling whenever you bump into
her and she smiles back, you'll become FAMILIAR with each
other, you're no more a stranger and after a while, when
you actually DO say "hi" to her, it won't come off as if
you're trying to hit on her because it's now a FRIENDLY
gesture between two people.
'
There's probably like a million ways for you to approach
a woman you like and talk to her.

Question: I proposed to a girl and she said that i don't even
know anything about you and how you are. First i like
you to be my friend and then i'll decide... does this
mean that she has an attraction to me, or is she just
avoiding me..

She also said that she has planned to marry after loving
a boy... now i am talking with her daily in the phone...
i want to impress her and dont know how to... pls help
me... i want her to try to talk to me and not me going
behind her..

Answer: I believe you are moving too fast with her.

When she says she doesn't know anything about you, chances
are she's right.

I know how it can be sometimes, especially with a girl
you like.

You want her so bad to the point you'll do just about
ANYTHING for her.

And when you like a girl so much, it's natural for you to
develop the tendency to RUSH it.

And when you rush it, chances are, you're also FORCING
it at the same time.

Now it's perfectly NORMAL for a girl to say she wants
to be just friends first to get to know you a little
better before moving on to the next level, but that's
EXPECTED with a girl who is not ATTRACTED to you in
the first place.

So what you need to do now is to get yourself EDUCATED.

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