0 How to Get a Girlfriend

Hi guys, once again...we meet. Ok ok, we are going to meet again and again. I know that. You know something whenever I have a guys hangout with my friends, or whenever I make friends with another guy, I hear one same fucking thing, "I don't have a girlfriend". Not that there aren't guys who have their girlfriends. Good for them, just my luck that I come across many of the single guys more often. You know how it happens.

So I'm dedicating my first post for the single guys who pine for a girlfriend. Ok, now listen up, friends. What I'm about to tell you might struck as the most common sense thing but I'm damn sure that we all fell into the social matrix and we did what others kept doing, and you know what next, no results.

I once heard somewhere "if you keep doing the same thing, you will keep getting the same results". Now, what you are doing now? You would say, Oh, I'm trying to show her that you are the man, right? You are buying her gifts, you are buying her flowers daily, you are telling her how much you love her, you keep calling her every now and then.... Oh, I know it.

Tell me onething, does it really help? See, I'm not here to give a whole long introduction to everything, beat about the bush and that's why, I want straight simple honest answers. I knew it, it doesn't work. 

So, what works with women. How to get a girlfriend, damn it.

Oh I know how helpless you feel. I had been there once, and let me tell you, we can all learn the secret and come up from there. We are born to do that. You have a nut sac that you can't deny.

Here's the deal, there is not "magic bullets" to get a girlfriend just like that. You just have to remember that a woman wants and needs a man. She loves a man. If she is in touch with her feminine nature, then she wants someone who is in touch with her masculine nature.

So, the first thing that you need to is work on yourself first. Now, how to get in touch with your male nature. Oh come on, you are born with a nut sac, for god's sake, have you forgotten that? But I should say that no girl wants a show of macho, but she wants the macho inside you that makes her feel like a woman.

Go get a personality, man. We can list out a number of words into the board: courage, determination, initiativeness, leadership, dominance, power, assertiveness, confidence, champion....and so on. But do we really know how to inculcate them into our personality? No. Here, I will tell you how to do it. The best way to do it is to hold someone as your idol, add some features to him you would like to, minus some features that you don't like of him and here you are. Our next personality model. Remember, we go by looks but girls go by personality. In fact, to be very honest here, I, myself, go by both looks and personality. If you go ask most of the dating experts, they would go by the scientific notion that guys go by looks, while girls go by personality. I say, whether you are a guy or a girl, we actually categorise a person whether he is potential mate material or not, not only by his/her looks but by his/her personality as well. Think about it all.

So, even before you want a woman, just work on your yourself and be a man. Get in touch with your inner nature, with yourself.