Saturday, April 3, 2010

0 Great Conversation Topics When Meeting Women

So, you're in a conversation with a woman. She's attractive.
And you want to make her interested in you. The question is
"what do you talk about?"

The truth is EVERY time you're in a conversation with a girl, you
MUST apply specific strategies for making her attracted.

This can include flirting, using humor, and displaying other high
status qualities. However, all of these tactics aren't really
helpful when it comes to knowing WHAT topics will make her
interested.

So today, we're going to discuss a few conversation topics that'll
help keep the conversation going WHILE you're creating attraction.
Now if you have problems in this area, then here's a great place
where you can get started:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/make-small-talk-sexy-blueprint.html

As I've mentioned time and time again, attraction starts with HOW
you talk. It's not about WHAT you say. A guy who knows how to
create attraction can take a menu and simply read it to a woman.
All the while sparking HEAPS of sexual chemistry.

So keep in mind that WHAT you're talking about isn't that
important. Really the only thing you need to worry about is
keeping the conversation going!

First off, when in doubt, ALWAYS focus the conversation on the
woman. Whether you're teasing her about something, or discussing
her favorite childhood memory, you'll get a positive response
when you talk about what SHE enjoys.

Remember people (especially women) LOVE to talk about themselves.

If you get stuck, wondering what to say next, ask a question
about a topic she's mentioned. Or even something she's wearing.
A simple "what's the story behind those earrings?" question can
save a dying a conversation.

Moving on...

Besides focusing a conversation on her, there are a number of
"chick-centric" topics that almost all women enjoy. Here are a
few that I've personally used:

~~~> Pop culture 

We all share a common experience of what's currently "in" at the
moment. Whether it's a popular movie, song, celebrity,
technology or kitsch item; you can quickly form a bond with a
girl by casually mentioning a reference to something that's
popular at that moment.

Using a pop culture as a conversation topic is one of the best
ways to establish some commonality, without making it seem like
you're trying to force a connection.

As an example, I currently tell a story about what happened on a
"Snuggie" pub crawl I recently attended. Now if a girl has seen
the commercials for the Snuggie, then I've formed an instant
common bond.

And if she hasn't, then I can tease her about not having the
"most awesomely comfortable blanket ever invented!" [My words]

In addition you can also interject references to pop culture in
the stories that you tell women. For instance, one of my
favorite stories describes a group of girls from Eastern Europe
who were stalking me. And instead of simply saying where they
were from, I describe how they had an accent like "Borat."

By including a pop culture reference into conversations, you're
giving woman a powerful frame of reference that makes it easier
to feel connected to you.

~~~> Travel destinations

Not only is this one of MY favorite topics, it also triggers a
feeling of adventure in women whenever you talk about it. Maybe
you just got back from Tahiti, or maybe you're about to go
somewhere cool.

If you don't have a trip planned, then mention some of the best
places you've been to. Talk about why you really liked them.

And if you haven't traveled. Ask about her experiences. What
was the coolest thing she's ever seen? Why?

~~~> Fun childhood memories

Make a positive connection to some of the memories she had
growing up. What did she want to be when she grew up? What was
the first pet she had? Was she a geek in high school or was she
popular?

Remember even the smallest memory can create a fun, emotion-
filled conversation topic:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/make-small-talk-sexy-blueprint.html

~~~> Dreams and aspirations

What's your dream house? What goals do you want to achieve, and
what are hers? Where's one place you must visit before you die?

If you paid attention to some of the emails I've sent in the last
month, then you should have PLENTY to talk about in this area.
The truth is a man with high status has a TON of things he wants
to do in life (Besides meet women.)

~~~> Great experiences

With this conversation topic, you'll harness the power of a well
told story. When you're talking to a woman, you should have at
least 4 or 5 stories that you can tell her. All of which subtly
demonstrate that you're a guy who has MANY of the qualities which
make you a 'catch.'

On the surface, you're telling a story about something you've
done, but at the same time you're subtly telling her that you're
a popular guy, who possesses many in-demand qualities
(intelligence, humor, confidence, popularity, and social
awareness.)


Furthermore, get her talking about some of her favorite
experiences. What's the craziest thing she's done? Has she had
a "life defining moment?" What are the hobbies she enjoys?

~~~> Relationship gossip

Women LOVE talking about relationships. Especially if they're
filled with drama. Whether it's one of her friends or a famous
celebrity from the cover of People, you can feed into the
*naughty* side of her personality by discussing a topic that's a
little bit taboo.

Start with a funny, but revealing story, about one of your friends
and watch as she tells a DOZEN anecdotes from her social circle.

~~~> Uplifting news or current events

This conversation topic shows her that you're up with the times.
Find something cute, funny, or interesting that you saw on the
news and discuss what it means to you.

Just make sure to steer away from religion, politics, or
polarizing social issues on this one. People tend to be VERY
passionate about one or both of these topics, and arguments
arising from them are seldom friendly.

~~~> "What if" questions

What would you do if you had a million dollars and never had to
work again? If you were "king" of America, what would you do?

This conversation topic stretches the imagination and shows the
creative side of your personality. What I really like about this
is you can ask a "what if" question, then immediately slip into
a fun role-playing scenario where the two of you discuss what
you'll do WHEN this happens in your lives.

~~~> Immediate surroundings

Look around a room when you're talking to a woman. Discuss the
things that you notice which are "conversation worthy."

Point out a couple in the room. Do they look happy? Are they
on a first date? What are they talking about?

If you train your brain to notice your surroundings, you'll NEVER
run out of conversation topics!

In my opinion, you can discuss just about ANYTHING when you first
meet a woman. My rule of thumb is this. If she's smiling,
laughing and ENGAGED in the conversation, then it's a GREAT topic!



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