0 3 Golden Rules of Teasing

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Rule #1 - Never Tease OR Mock Yourself
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Have you ever been around a girl who constantly talks about how
fat or ugly she is, solely to get attention or guilt someone into
strongly disagreeing with her?

She's 5'6" and 100 pounds soaking wet. Yet she's loudly
complaining about being a "fat cow." Pretty annoying, right?

Even worse...Ever talk to the girl who complains about her flaws?
You didn't notice them before, but suddenly you become VERY aware
of this negative quality. ONLY because SHE was the one to point
it out.

This kind of behavior is just as annoying coming from a guy.
Trust me if you have a negative quality, it does NOT help your
situation to point it out to a woman.

Bottom line. Poking fun at your own shortcomings demonstrates
low status to women. In a way, you're revealing to her
just how low your self-esteem really is (when, in reality, it
shouldn't be low at all.)

ANY teasing comment you make should increase your status - not
turn her off.

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Rule #2 - Tease Her, But Don't Insult Her
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Direct your humor AT the girl. Yeah, I know you're probably not
used to teasing women, but there is a good-natured way to do it
that will help you quickly build attraction.

Allow me to explain something about women:

Most of the time, women are used to guys kissing their asses.
Typically, other men will shower them with compliments in the
hopes of getting them into the bedroom. The problem is this
behavior becomes VERY boring and VERY predictable.

In order to stand out from other guys, tease her in a way where
she's wondering what's the next thing that's going to come out
of your mouth. You're different because you're acting like a
high status guy who is a CHALLENGE.

In a way, you're acting like a jerk. But a jerk that makes her
laugh and feel that tingle of sexual excitement:

BUT teasing NEVER means you act like a complete asshole. So
avoid talking about her physical flaws. Or saying things that
are just plain insulting.

The mindset for this is to take on a role of "assumed
familiarity." In a way, you're acting like person who she
already knows who isn't afraid to playfully banter and make funny
jokes at her expense.

For instance if she's wearing large, bright jewelry, you can
tell her something like, "Damn woman! All that bling you're
wearing is gonna blind me!" And then start a routine about how
she's into gangster rap artist.

The rule of thumb is to be playful and warm, not mean.

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Rule #3 - Teasing is ONE Part of Your Personality
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The final rule is to know when to turn off the teasing persona.
Whenever you're in a conversation with a woman, there is a time
to be funny, and a time to be serious.

If you've used teasing effectively, she's bound to eventually
open up to you. With that said, if she starts telling you how her
grandmother just died, don't ask her if she "bit the dust" while
riding her Harley.

In fact, the overall look of your face should immediately switch
from one of humor, to one of seriousness.

As you've probably discovered, women want guys who have more
going for them than slapstick comedy. In order for you to be the
attractive guy she wants, you have to show other aspects of your
personality as well.

The delivery of your comments is as important (of not more so)
than the comments themselves. You're goal is to avoid being a
stand-up comedian working the room for attention.

Instead, use teasing as a "spice" for the conversation. As
you're talking, toss in little things here and there that'll
throw her off balance.

For instance if a woman mentions something you don't agree with,
say a line like, "That's it, we're breaking up." Then, when she
says something you like, say, "Alright...I guess we can go out
again. But you're on probation. One slip, and it's over." Then
immediately move into another topic.

I personally love teasing. And I think it's a crucial element
for creating sexual attraction. But like ANY tool, it can be
overused. Teasing should be an important part of your
personality but NOT the only part.

If you blend it with other qualities like leadership, confidence,
and charisma, you'll be the PERECT example of her perfect guy!

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