Discontentment. That's a main part of the Art of Seducing Women.
We all feel it, at one point or another, we do.
Living a mundane, boring, predictable life is what most people
hate, and they're constantly looking for ways to get out of
it.
Women want excitement in their lives.
You give them what they want.
That's the way to seducing women. You create a void and you fill that void.
If she is tired with her routine life, ask her, "What will
you be doing this weekend? What? Working? Staying at home??"
Insinuate feelings of inadequacy and this will give you a
good opportunity to come in between and fill the void - to
give her JOY =)
Offer her a way out of her mundane routine, "Let's give that
a break for this week. I'll pick you up from your
place and we'll go out of town to climb some rocks =)"
(It could anything you know she's has passion in).
Engage her fantasies, her imagination her yearnings and
desires. Try to position yourself in a way that you represent
change, differences and excitement.
Make her feel that her life can be so much more than it is
now. Entice her. Enticement = Seduction
For instance, if you know how much she loves to read
romantic novels (as most women do), you can build up your
character according to the main hero of the book.
Think...
What do most male characters in a romance book have?
When she is in the bathroom prepping herself before you
guys head out, pick up the book she is reading and learn a
bit about the male character who sweeps the woman off her
feet. Learn how that male character or the male characters seduce the women in the heroic tale of love.
Women read these books to fulfill some fantasies they
aren't able to fulfill in real life.
So, if you can see a way to do as the male character in the
book does, what are you waiting for?" I have a friend who
did something similar.
The girl he was interested in at that time was reading
a novel called "Dragon slayer." Oh, the name sounds so seducing.
The hero in it gets the woman into bed by picking her up
from work, turning up at her house with breakfast and
presenting her teddy bears- something she did not have
when she was young.
The female character in the book was an orphan with a
deprived childhood and the male character so cleverly
filled this void by giving her all she missed out.
My friend got an idea after the book. He remembered that
his friend has always mentioned she never had a doll
house because her family was poor and that she had always
wanted one.
So my friend decided to keep taking her shopping and
often passing by this shop where they sold some really
lovely and expensive doll houses.
She would stop and stare longingly and my friend would
say, "You never had that while you were growing
up? Guess you missed out..."
A week later, he bought her one (filling the void).
And occasionally when he goes and sees her, he gets her
some furniture for the house.
Needless to say, she was thrilled and it was a happy
ending. They can't keep their hands off each other now
lol =) That's how you seduce women, baby.
The point is, you can concentrate on her friends or her
surroundings - the externals of her life attract a woman
you want.
Open up your horizons, open up your mind.
Stir her sense of need and discontent and you'll soon
have her "buy" whatever it is you are "selling".
But whatever the case is, do not take this step too far
because if you do so, she may feel "unworthy" and
"alienated."
And instead of feeling attraction for you, she may
distance herself from you thinking she is "unworthy" of
your attention.
Remember, the art of seduction is a rope and you better learn how to balance on it or you fall.
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